Okay after just posting two other blogs.. making sure that my grammer was correct and I was using bible scriptures...
i needed a break from being poitcally and gramatically correct.. so I started surfing other sites and groups..
and guess what.. i found a group called ANGRY BLACK WOMAN!!
oh i was floored... but then guess what.. I was like.. are we angry? AM I ANGRY? WHY DID I JOIN THIS GROUP!!!
then i wanted to see what was going on with my fellow sisters and see if i could help with feedback OR BEING HONEST TO SEE IF I HAD SOME OF THE SAME ISSUES AS THEM!!
Thank goodness I saw that I was OVER some of the issues that I did see.. but then realized that some people do not even ask why women are even angry!!!
Now the average person seeing this title.. especially if it was a black man would automatically think that we are literally a bunch of angry balck women.. but do you realize that most people dont even ask why we are angry..its like to people its a SIN for a black woman to be angry....but an angry black woman surely got tyler perry paid in the movie box office..
things happen to us black women... we are taught to keep things to ourselves.. and just suck it up.. or just go somewhere and pray about it!! well isnt it NATURAL THEN SPIRITUAL..
trust me.. i will bleed BEFORE i speak in tounges!!
but isnt that helping us to hurt ONE ANOTHER and the black man?? it is NOT all of our fault why we have a stain ... via when it comes to dating or marrying a black woman, you hear it from the brothers... the excuse is we are too mean or bossy etc..
you even have a brother like wesley snipes OPENLY saying he will NEVER be with a black woman etc.. i say its HIS LOST like other black men that thinks like him.. becaus i have realized and i do understand that they were hurt badly from a sistah....
so what did he do.. he gave up on us.. ok that is his perogative.. ( im not a bobby brown fan! )
but that's just like also saying.. we as women get hurt by brothers of any color.. so now we are going to go and date women?....... hmm.. something is in the water and trust me its not the water that the FISHER'S OF MEN were working out of!! lol!!
for men and women.... be angry yes.. just dont STAY angry.... FIND STRESS RELIEVERS and know that whatever or whomever got you upset.. the BEST REVENGE for me has always been success!!
okay maybe not always.. id love to break a window or two about 10 years ago!!
but hey.. if we cant be honest.. who are we really helping and hurting?
OURSELVES AND OUR FELLOW SISTERS!!
We surely cant be going through all this extra curricular FOOLISHNESS for ourselves!!
whew.. that felt good to post..
P.S. Men at times are "just as" or " more angry" as black women but they are taught to shun it, throw it under the rug or just get a pat on the shoulder from a fellow brother preacha and assures them that " it will alright doc"........ but in honesty before it and HE can be ok.. just like women.. you have to deal with the things that have been tainting your ministry, your family, your personal relationships and your WALK WITH THE ALMIGHT...
Thanks for listening.. and know that your ministry will not take off ( how God has orchestrated it for you ) until your insides gets cleansed, I dont care how many preaching gigs that you are in your date book..