The loss of a spouse is very painful, and Divorce is the most painful, as it is like living the death over and over again. One hast to find peace and move on by the grace of God by not playing the blame game. Satan is the accuser of the brothers and he accuses us night and day before the Father. We are accepted in the beloved, so thank God for your time together and let the Lord lead you in life everlasting. Delight thyself in the Lord and He will grant you the desires of your heart.
As Job learned to trust God more and to be a better servant, so we too can learn that from divorce recovery. Never give up on love for it is always the cure for all that ills us. Love believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things, for love never fails.