Domestic Abuse And Violence Against Men
Have anyone ever payed any attention to a male bashing women websites like Don't Date Him Girl website. I was wondering, so I did a quick search to find out if there was a site that men have & sure enough they do. It's called Domestic Abuse And Violence Against Men of course I don't think any man ever use it.http://domesticviolenceresourcesformen.blogspot.com/2009/02/domesti...
The idea that men could be victims of domestic abuse and violence is so unthinkable to most people that many men will not even attempt to report the situation. The counseling and psychological community have responded to domestic abuse and violence against women. Not enough has been done to stop abuse against women. There has been very little investment in resources to address the issues of domestic abuse and violence against men.
There are many reasons why we don't know more about domestic abuse and violence against men. First of all, the incidence of domestic violence reported men appears to be so low that it is hard to get reliable estimates. In addition, it has taken years of advocacy and support to encourage women to report domestic violence. Virtually nothing has been done to encourage men to report abuse. The idea that men could be victims of domestic abuse and violence is so unthinkable that many men will not even attempt to report the situation.
The dynamic of domestic abuse and violence is also different between men and women. The reasons, purposes and motivations are often very different between sexes. Although the counseling and psychological community have responded to domestic abuse and violence against women, there has been very little investment in resources to address and understand the issues of domestic abuse and violence against men. In most cases, the actual physical damage inflicted by men is so much greater than the actual physical harm inflected by women. The impact of domestic violence is less apparent and less likely to come to the attention of others when men are abused. For example, it is assumed than a man with a bruise or black eye was in a fight with another man or was injured on the job or playing contact sports. Even when men do report domestic abuse and violence, most people are so astonished men usually end up feeling like nobody believes them.
Very little in known about the actual number of men who are in a domestic relationship in which they are abused or treated violently by women. In 100 domestic violence situations approximately 40 cases involve violence by women against men. An estimated 400,000 women per year are abused or treated violently in the United States by their spouse or intimate partner. This means that roughly 300,000 to 400,000 men are treated violently by their wife or girl friend.
Domestic abuse can also be mental or emotional. However, what will hurt a man mentally and emotionally, can in some cases be very different from what hurts a woman. For some men, being called a coward, impotent or a failure can have a Approximately 1 to 2 percent of all women have a Borderline Personality disorder. At least 50% of all domestic abuse and violence against men is associated with woman who have a Borderline Personality disorder. The disorder is also associated with suicidal behavior, severe mood swings, lying, sexual problems and alcohol abuse.very different psychological impact than it would on a women. Unkind and cruel words hurt, but they can hurt in different ways and linger in different ways. In most cases, men are more deeply affected by emotional abuse than physical abuse.
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I was stalked but since it was a women stalking a man women seemed not to care & even encouraged it & helped because she played the victim. Since these folks seem to want to move in the shadows I must send out an alert. If anyone belong to Prince Hall or [PHF] or the Order of The Eastern Star Organization or International Masons, you don't concern me. First, I would like to send my prayers to all victims of domestic violence.
I'm not trying to offend any sista who was ever stalked or a victim of domestic violence.
But true be told women don't give a dame! when it's a man on the other end of being a victim. Women seem even encourage it. Heather Wall is from Cleveland, Ohio. She received a B.A. from Ursuline University in psychology and a Master degree from Case Western University in Social Work. Back in 1998, previously before dating me, she was ordered by a judge to the Cleveland Date Rape Center to under go psychological evaluation. I saw an open letter, in 1999, stating that she strongly need to come back and finish her psychological evaluation. Now, this is an organization who's foundation is set-up to defend women & their telling her she needs mental help. Any way, that was it for me. I thought she was a volunteer, than she started telling people I was beating on her. Than the signs would jump out at me. I didn't know enough about mental illness. I really knew nothing about schizophrenia, erotomania, bipolar disorder, psychosis. She would say she saw shadows in her bedroom and that she heard voices. She also became very possessive and very emotional all the time, well I thought the over the top emotional act & the possessive part was the norm. She would always ask me to spend the night all the time, that was the norm. After she was exposed a lil' she supposedly died from sickle cell anemia after they stunt back in 05' in Cali up at UCLA Heather Wall & friends was very discreet about it. I had no contact since 99', no e-mails, no phone calls, but, yet, she knew I was in Cali & around UCLA & UCS. She also stalked me in other cities like Phila at Temple University, she may have hired a privet investigator, because this was no coincidence. To get back to the discreet part, this might be related to the comparatively small physical stature of her. She may have been less confident in her physical prowess, and therefore she avoided conspicuous situations. Where a male stalker might come right out and obviously follow his target, a female stalker will hide in the shadows to avoid detection. Mine was an intimacy & resentful stalker. I thought after we broke -up in 99' she got on with her life. And about them spreading stories about me beating her if you date someone for 9 months and you grab them for 2 seconds twice out of 9 months, that's putting your hands on them, it's not a smack or a punch, to me a grab is not domestic violence.
WHAT'S FUNNY WAS THAT I THOUGHT IT WAS OVER A SUPER LOTTO TICKET I LEFT IN MY TRUCK BACK IN AUG.1999 BUT I DIDN'T REALLY THINK I HAD WON. Cleveland, Ohio had a Super Lotto before the Mega Million.
Ronnette "Roni" Burks & Heather Wall met at the Cleveland Date Rape Center in the late 90's when Ronnette "Roni" Burks worked there Ronnette Burks pledged Alpha Kappa Alpha at Akron University and now work at the State or Justice dept. in Columbus, Ohio. Ronnette Burks was given an award from Ex-Gov. Taft. Ro & Ronnette Burks is also related to Caesar Burkes the McDonald's Corp.'s minority burger baron who owns the largest number of McDonald's franchise restaurants in the country. Ceaser Burks is their uncle. They also had a relative that was a Government informant helping them. They all are spineless.
My point is that men can be victims as well as women. But when it's a women stalking a man other women encourage it. You can say what you want but it's true. So if women want to post my face on Don't Date Him Girl girl here's the address>> http://dontdatehimgirl.com/about/ I did this because I'm not concerned about dating any jolted woman that seeks out a website to bash men after the relationship is over.
In my case there was an ulterior motive.
Yours truly,
Anthony Smith
The idea that men could be victims of domestic abuse and violence is so unthinkable to most people that many men will not even attempt to report the situation. The counseling and psychological community have responded to domestic abuse and violence against women. Not enough has been done to stop abuse against women. There has been very little investment in resources to address the issues of domestic abuse and violence against men.
There are many reasons why we don't know more about domestic abuse and violence against men. First of all, the incidence of domestic violence reported men appears to be so low that it is hard to get reliable estimates. In addition, it has taken years of advocacy and support to encourage women to report domestic violence. Virtually nothing has been done to encourage men to report abuse. The idea that men could be victims of domestic abuse and violence is so unthinkable that many men will not even attempt to report the situation.
The dynamic of domestic abuse and violence is also different between men and women. The reasons, purposes and motivations are often very different between sexes. Although the counseling and psychological community have responded to domestic abuse and violence against women, there has been very little investment in resources to address and understand the issues of domestic abuse and violence against men. In most cases, the actual physical damage inflicted by men is so much greater than the actual physical harm inflected by women. The impact of domestic violence is less apparent and less likely to come to the attention of others when men are abused. For example, it is assumed than a man with a bruise or black eye was in a fight with another man or was injured on the job or playing contact sports. Even when men do report domestic abuse and violence, most people are so astonished men usually end up feeling like nobody believes them.
Very little in known about the actual number of men who are in a domestic relationship in which they are abused or treated violently by women. In 100 domestic violence situations approximately 40 cases involve violence by women against men. An estimated 400,000 women per year are abused or treated violently in the United States by their spouse or intimate partner. This means that roughly 300,000 to 400,000 men are treated violently by their wife or girl friend.
Domestic abuse can also be mental or emotional. However, what will hurt a man mentally and emotionally, can in some cases be very different from what hurts a woman. For some men, being called a coward, impotent or a failure can have a Approximately 1 to 2 percent of all women have a Borderline Personality disorder. At least 50% of all domestic abuse and violence against men is associated with woman who have a Borderline Personality disorder. The disorder is also associated with suicidal behavior, severe mood swings, lying, sexual problems and alcohol abuse.very different psychological impact than it would on a women. Unkind and cruel words hurt, but they can hurt in different ways and linger in different ways. In most cases, men are more deeply affected by emotional abuse than physical abuse.
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I was stalked but since it was a women stalking a man women seemed not to care & even encouraged it & helped because she played the victim. Since these folks seem to want to move in the shadows I must send out an alert. If anyone belong to Prince Hall or [PHF] or the Order of The Eastern Star Organization or International Masons, you don't concern me. First, I would like to send my prayers to all victims of domestic violence.
I'm not trying to offend any sista who was ever stalked or a victim of domestic violence.
But true be told women don't give a dame! when it's a man on the other end of being a victim. Women seem even encourage it. Heather Wall is from Cleveland, Ohio. She received a B.A. from Ursuline University in psychology and a Master degree from Case Western University in Social Work. Back in 1998, previously before dating me, she was ordered by a judge to the Cleveland Date Rape Center to under go psychological evaluation. I saw an open letter, in 1999, stating that she strongly need to come back and finish her psychological evaluation. Now, this is an organization who's foundation is set-up to defend women & their telling her she needs mental help. Any way, that was it for me. I thought she was a volunteer, than she started telling people I was beating on her. Than the signs would jump out at me. I didn't know enough about mental illness. I really knew nothing about schizophrenia, erotomania, bipolar disorder, psychosis. She would say she saw shadows in her bedroom and that she heard voices. She also became very possessive and very emotional all the time, well I thought the over the top emotional act & the possessive part was the norm. She would always ask me to spend the night all the time, that was the norm. After she was exposed a lil' she supposedly died from sickle cell anemia after they stunt back in 05' in Cali up at UCLA Heather Wall & friends was very discreet about it. I had no contact since 99', no e-mails, no phone calls, but, yet, she knew I was in Cali & around UCLA & UCS. She also stalked me in other cities like Phila at Temple University, she may have hired a privet investigator, because this was no coincidence. To get back to the discreet part, this might be related to the comparatively small physical stature of her. She may have been less confident in her physical prowess, and therefore she avoided conspicuous situations. Where a male stalker might come right out and obviously follow his target, a female stalker will hide in the shadows to avoid detection. Mine was an intimacy & resentful stalker. I thought after we broke -up in 99' she got on with her life. And about them spreading stories about me beating her if you date someone for 9 months and you grab them for 2 seconds twice out of 9 months, that's putting your hands on them, it's not a smack or a punch, to me a grab is not domestic violence.
WHAT'S FUNNY WAS THAT I THOUGHT IT WAS OVER A SUPER LOTTO TICKET I LEFT IN MY TRUCK BACK IN AUG.1999 BUT I DIDN'T REALLY THINK I HAD WON. Cleveland, Ohio had a Super Lotto before the Mega Million.
Ronnette "Roni" Burks & Heather Wall met at the Cleveland Date Rape Center in the late 90's when Ronnette "Roni" Burks worked there Ronnette Burks pledged Alpha Kappa Alpha at Akron University and now work at the State or Justice dept. in Columbus, Ohio. Ronnette Burks was given an award from Ex-Gov. Taft. Ro & Ronnette Burks is also related to Caesar Burkes the McDonald's Corp.'s minority burger baron who owns the largest number of McDonald's franchise restaurants in the country. Ceaser Burks is their uncle. They also had a relative that was a Government informant helping them. They all are spineless.
My point is that men can be victims as well as women. But when it's a women stalking a man other women encourage it. You can say what you want but it's true. So if women want to post my face on Don't Date Him Girl girl here's the address>> http://dontdatehimgirl.com/about/ I did this because I'm not concerned about dating any jolted woman that seeks out a website to bash men after the relationship is over.
In my case there was an ulterior motive.
Yours truly,
Anthony Smith
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Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned
In classical mythology the Furies were avenging deities, fearful goddesses from Tartarus who avenged wrong and punished crime. Fury in the sense of ‘frenzied rage’ may also be intended, esp. in more modern quots. Cf. [Euripides Medea l. 263] γυνή γὰρ ṯἄλλα μεν ϕόβου ρλέα κακή ᾽τ ἐς ἀλκήν καὶ σίδηρον ɛἰσορᾶν: ὅṯαν δ᾽ ἐς ɛὐνήν ἠδίκημένη κυρῇ, οὐκ ἕσṯίν ἄλλη ϕρήν μίαίϕονωṯέρα, in other circumstances a woman is full of fear and shuns to confront force and iron; but when she has been wronged in a matter of sex, there is no other heart more bloodthirsty. The idea was a commonplace in the Renaissance.
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Women just want to get EVEN. Women want to protect themselfs so he will never take advantage of you or any other women again. Right! Other women don't know what he did but I know that she is really suffering right now. She feels angry and betrayed. Women feel heartbroken and filled with fury. Women just want their boyfriend to feel the pain that they feel. Women want him to know what it feels like. Women want to do something that will hurt him back, and make him feel even worse than the way he hurt them. Women want revenge because revenge feels good. There is nothing "sweeter" than getting revenge on their boyfriend.
Getting even with their boyfriend is what they want. Women want the satisfaction this boyfriend revenge will bring.
This is why they have antistalking laws in every state. When a man feel like that they will throw him in prison faster than you can type a response.
Revenge is just a quick fix. What happens after you get revenge?
You want more revenge!
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And what side of the story could she tell?
We are talking about 5 years after the relationship was over. No e-mails, no phone calls, no letters, no contact. Anybody who stalk someone for a number of years would receive a sentence of maybe three years & since she doesn't have a criminal record she would get probation and ordered to undergo psychiatric treatment. "WHICH A JUDGE HAD ALREADY DONE BEFORE I STARTED DATING HER!" If you are determined to turn someone’s world upside-down, mess with someone head and destroy any kind of order in their life, and if you have the money and connections to hire people to do it for you, there is not much that anyone, including the police, can do to stop you, despite anti stalking laws in every state."
You see with me, when a relationship is over, I can careless who she dates or marry. I'm not a jealous man or a jolted man. I don't seek out my ex-girlfriends for revenge or spread rumors so men don't want them. Never had, never will. It's called faith, faith God will send me a lady that's right for me. My soul mate. Who ever the lady was I was in a relationship with was not my soul mate. I'm sure she would be right for someone else. So I don't get off on all this revenge crap! Any woman who try to get revenge, when the table turns, she gets what she deserve.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
I don't believe in hell. And can't no woman, man, pagan organization, or society governed law place me there physically or mentally .
Yours truly,
Anthony Smith
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THE DRAMA!
"I must be someone's No. 1 fan."
They even have a following on other post. Is everyone getting into the act?
GPS tracking with audio planted in someone property. Stretch limousines. Corrupt US Marshals, very interesting.
http://whosarat.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3927545
http://whosarat.websitetoolbox.com/post?id=3988383
http://ohiohiphopawards.com/forum/index.php?topic=191.0
Yours truly,
Anthony Smith
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Why is it always the folks that are living their life with the least amount of thought are concern about conspiracies or drama in their life put through unnecessary drama that don't concern them & are never fully cleared of any conspiracy?
The Government Informant program is one of the greatest failures in the history of federal law enforcement and we need to turn are attention to the nationwide FBI management practices. The ultrasecret informant program, FBI agents became corrupt, encouraged to commit perjury. They bend & brake the law when protecting informants. Due to the severity of mandatory minimums and the impact it has had on this country's prison population, it is my opinion that the use of informants by the government is a shameful disgrace!
Yours truly,
Anthony Smith
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Permalink Reply by Evangelist Altha Fugett on
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Anthony
For there to be drama, someone has to set the stage.
Informants always end up incarcerated or dead, they set the stage
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I know what you mean sister fugett, but what if the stage has been set & the performance, & I do mean performance is being played out & your not aware your pulled into this drama. I know other folks wasn't aware of their performance they were just being manipulated into paying a role in this drama.
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This is just what you mean sister. This was in the weekend paper.
http://www.newsnet5.com/news/22186311/detail.html
CLEVELAND -- A rogue informant testified Friday that he framed people on drug charges in undercover buys supervised by a federal agent charged with helping the informant.
Jerrell Bray, 38, who has served time in prison for manslaughter and perjury, was the government's lead witness at the trial of Lee Lucas, 41, a 19-year veteran of the U.S. Drug Enforcement Administration.
Lucas, who was Bray's handler in a 2005 cocaine sting in Mansfield, took notes and occasionally whispered to his defense attorney as Bray described a series of frame-ups in which he typically asked a friend to pose as someone setting up a buy.
Bray framed 17 people by deliberately misidentifying them or staging scripted phone calls to make them appear to be drug dealers, prosecutors said. Lucas, who is on administrative leave with the DEA, faces 18 charges including obstruction of justice, making a false statement, perjury and violating civil rights. If convicted, he could face more than five years in prison.
The case prompted the government to drop charges that came from tips provided by Bray. Before that, one person had been convicted and served about 16 months of a 10-year sentence. Bray is serving 15 years for perjury and civil rights violations against those targeted in his role as an informant. Dressed in a white shirt and print tie, he waved to family members in court for his testimony.
Lucas' attorney portrays Bray as a liar and drug dealer with a history of mental illness.
The prosecutor, Bruce Teitelbaum, briefly questioned Bray about his criminal background. Bray said he got involved in car thefts by sixth grade and started selling drugs at 15 or 16. In Mansfield, Bray testified that he arranged a $3,200 drug buy as part of a sting but got a discounted price and pocketed the difference, hiding the money in his car so his handler wouldn't see it.
Bray also testified that he offered to do a crack cocaine buy from a person who he knew didn't deal crack. His testimony was interspersed with audio clips of phone conversations of the deals. The government said it will use audio and video surveillance clips to prove that Lucas wasn't in a position to corroborate Bray's information when Lucas testified at drug trials and wrote surveillance reports.
DEA snitch Jerrell Bray says he decided to come clean.
http://truthinjustice.org/lee-lucas2.htm
DEA agent Lee Lucas going to trial on charges he lied in testimony.
http://blog.cleveland.com/metro/lee_lucas/index.html
This is the full article in the paper when the story first broke.
http://blog.cleveland.com/metro/2008/06/drug_prosecutions_gone_wron...
Yours truly,
Anthony Smith
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