Every relationship starts with expectations, but why they are not fulfilled?
Most people step into a relationship because they are expecting something from the person they are involved with. Be in the ministry, courtship, marriage or engagement. And in most of the time when what they are expecting is not fulfilled relartionship falls apart. Always someone puts a blame on the other person. No one wants to accept the failure and the downfall of the relationship.

What do we need to know about expectations:
1. They are always there, but sometimes they are not clarified
2. They are not properly communicated, they are passively mentioned sometimes.

What are the weak points of our expectations:
* Sometimes it's becuase of our culture or backround that cause us not to talk about them.
* It has not been our practise to talk about them
* Sometimes they lead us into arguments when they are not clarifed

When to talk about them
During your quality time

The elements of expectation
1. Keep to your commitments- fullfill them don't make a promise you can't fulfill
2. If you are aware that you can't be able to fulfill what you promised, just apologise
3. Show your personal intergrity- living the words you have said- to be loyal
4. Attend to all little things. Songs of Solomon 2:17
5. Apologise sincerely

Let me hear from you, Why do you think they are not fulfilled?

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