One of the BIGGEST PROBLEMS in MARRIAGE I'm seeing in the world today is when you have TWO INDEPENDENT INDIVIDUALS still trying to be TWO INDEPENDENT INDIVIDUALS!!!

It helps to KNOW YOUR ROLE BEFORE entering into the MARRIAGE COVENANT... #TWOShallBecomeONEflesh!!!

 

‎"Wives, understand and support your husbands in ways that show your support for Christ. The husband provides leadership to his wife the way Christ does to his church, not by domineering but by cherishing. So just as the church submits to Christ as he exercises such leadership, wives should likewise submit to their husbands." ~ Ephesians 5:22-24

 

LADIES... There are too many of y'all running around like Destiny's Child singing "Independent Woman"...We need to KNOW & UNDERSTAND our ROLE & SUBMIT!!!

 

FELLAS: God gave Adam authority & dominion over the animals & things of the earth. You will always have problems trying to rule over an ANOINTED WOMAN if your animals aren’t in check!!!

 

Question from one of my singles ministry members: It's like dating forever.... well .... Until you get in a fight and break up.


How can marriage last with two people living two different lives, two independent people who could live with or without? Sounds like a weak commitment.

 

My response to their question:  The BIG problem I see is lack of commitment. It takes TWO for that... You only control 50% of the relationship or marriage. It's imperative you find someone who has the same commitment level as you, the same marital viewpoints, the same level of HONOR. And it's important to not be yoked together with unbelievers.


Other Members responses:  Like this point, but it can really only apply if the yoking is of the same "egg", problem is when we choose, we get only what we think we see in the natural, when HE chooses, we get what he sees in the spiritual, Father, truly "Always Knows Best" for his children!

 

Amen, what do you feel god thinks about abusive or very damaging marriages when the 50 percenters have given all, n dissolve n cut losses, can one truly have a lifetime mate after the first?


My responses to their statements:  God knows the intents of the heart... ♥

We serve a loving, faithful God... He has a plan for us, to prosper, not to HARM us... He is the God of SECOND CHANCES!!!


FELLAS: When a man marries a woman, his spirit should be so strong that we they become ONE FLESH that whatever was weak in her, gets repaired because of the ONENESS added from his spirit... The bible says: "And the two shall become one..." A man leaves his father & mother and cleaves to his wife... a Man can't leave home until he's whole because the MAN is the REPAIRER of the BREECH... Ephesians 5:26 tells us that the Husband is to wash his Wife with the word. 


That means whatever's not perfect in her, you don't complain about it. When she becomes ONE with you, you initiate the REPAIR of everything weak in her... that's why the Bible says to live with her as the weaker vessel. 

When you become one in the Spirit with God, whatever your frailty is, whatever your weakness is, His Spirit REPAIRS that...walk in the Spirit and don't give into the desires of the flesh... because when you're in the Spirit, you're NOT BROKE DOWN, YOU'RE NOT WEAK, YOU'RE NOT MESSED UP, YOU'RE NOT CONFUSED... That's why those who can't forgive are not in the Spirit because if you were, whoever hurt you, the Spirit repairs...

 

WORDS OF WISDOM: He who thinks he is KING of his Castle must first be INTIMATE with the KING OF KINGS to gain Passage & Keys into the KINGDOM, otherwise be charged with TRESPASSING... The DEED in which he is to receive so states the terms & conditions by which the Castle & all its acquisitions will remain with him. THIS IS A JURISDICTIONAL PROVISION OF KINGDOM ORDER. Unless we have first submitted ourselves to DIVINE GOVERNMENTAL rule over us, we will never be qualified to rule over others.

 

Husbands...wives...stop living out the curse of Genesis 3:16 and start living out the commands of Ephesians 5:21-33!

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