How does one start again after a hard break up and Divorce?
I am resently Divorced and Single Father. I took a step back from Ministry to focus on my Children and heal from the hurt.

Now I am feeling to pull to get back to my calling and God is waking me in the early hours.
Pray for your brother and advice is desired.

Your Brother in His Service.
Elder Chan
Water boy 4 Jesus

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Rev. Luckett gave you some good advice Brother Chan. To add to that, if you are not one who can remember what the Lord tells you in the wee hours or those moments at the red light or when you are given inspiring words, I want to encourage you to keep a small notepad and pen handy.

God gives us desires and then fulfills them in us as we diligently seek his face and earnestly listen to his voice.

As wierd as this may sound, now that you are divorced, you can have more quiet time with God for both healing and instruction.

If you are a person who likes to write, I encourage you to write about your experience. You don't have to post it online... just write or type it on your pc. I release a lot of my thoughts and emotions by writing/typing. It is my form of prayer conversation along with talking to the Lord out loud and silently.

The last thing is this... ministry is a broad thing. You said you feeling a pull to get back to your calling. What is your calling?
Proverb is a good book for spirtual healing. Prov. 3:1-6
My son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my commandments:For length of days, and long life, and peace, shall they add to thee. Let not mercy and truth forsake thee: bind them about thy neck; write them upon the table of thine heart:
So shalt thou find favour and good understanding in the sight of God and man.Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
when did jesus seek the advice of the gentiles?

look i been a single father of 2 since 2001 after helping my ex raise here to sons..
i still have mine and aint never asked no man for adivice...
i ahve only sought Deus god---
to know if u are doing right u need to know god...
Elder Chan, the first step to starting over is to continue with God. The second is to get the past behind you, by resolving issues with the other person if you can. Next resolve the issues with your self (one of the things I had to to was to greive the loss, the loss of family, vision and my dreams. Many may tell you just hurry up ! Are you still dealing with that? Take the time to be delivered from what you have encountered, it is very important to your well being emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Seek council from just a few and don't allow others to bring up the past by asking so many questions.

Then it is time to LOVE yourself. Asking the opinions of many is not always the best thing to do. The friends and family that stick by you is important. Stay with those that encourage and love you through all the nasty and tough times. Embrace the new destiny that is before you, it is uncertain at times. I never thought I could be happy again, but the joy is exhiliarting and the view my future is exhilirating. Grace and peace.
That's wonderful to know that you are headed in the right dicrection.You keep yourself befor the Lord and let Him give you guideness.And you know the enemy will come to distract and be prayerful.I went thru one many year's ago and it has helped me to minister to others in the church and out of the church.I never will forget what God spoke to me as I was cry ing was very hurt and the Lord spoke to me so clearly he said Shirley theris Purpose In The Pain.He let me know I would meet many who have and are going thur divorce and how to use use what he has given me to minister to oters that God will bring you out.Yes I was able to forgive my former husband and I dont see him but will continue to pray for him and you forgivrness is the key to moving on with your life.You will meet other men in your life who need to here a real testimony how God can and will bring them out.Be encouaged Continue to focus on your children and help them to forgive too ok.God Bless You!!!


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