I Needd some input on true forgiveness to help my wife. i know what the bible says but my wife finds it hard to except Jesus teachings. don't get me wrong she loves God and is faithful to him. However when folk do things to her she has this vibe thats not joy filled and its due to the fact she has not really forgave. here is the issue that happen. a fellow church member got upset because her granddaughter had her nose busted by one of the young boys in the church. witnesses say the kids were playing outside the church and you know how that goes. anyway it was mentioned that my son may have done it but that was found not to be true. however in the mist of the confussion this fellow church member in defense of their grandchild started talking un christian like. she told her grandson next time someone hurts your sister kill em dead ect.. then she began cursing out side the church in front of our Pastor. finally she swore at my wife. my pastor was very upset at this. we didnt expect to see her for a while but she showed up i church sunday like nothing happened. i realized she has deep issues and needs Gods deliverance i ask God to forgive her and i forgave her for talking bad to my wife. my wife however keeps bringing up the fact that its seems the lady does not like her, she looks at her funny. and it seems she hasn't been put in check. so my wife says the next time the lady says something she will leave the church. now i'm a minister there also the pastor right hand . i know thats not tru forgiveness. she should not dwell on what that lady did. what advice do you have for my wife or do you agree with her?
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