Why Marriage Fail?

[Min Andrias Shongwe]

I have heard of marriage related problems that mostly end in divorce and want to know the main causes of marriage problems and failure?

 

[Preacher]

I disagree, we were not created to be ourselves, we were created to be like Christ,and thoes of us who are born of God become like Christ...as we look back in history we find that the more power women were given the higher the divorce rate climbed.

The Women's Movement changed society. Do you think it was for the better or worse? For example, there was a time when very few women had careers, most were full-time stay at home moms. There was a time that women were not allowed to fight alongside men in combat. There was a time when men carried the full load of providing for home and family. In other words, the roles for men and women were much more defined than they are today.

Our fIrst femminist was none other than our forst mother Eve,and that rebelion has grown down threw the centuries,to the very point which it is today,teen pregnancy,abortion rights,divorce,and the destruction of millions of familes,just as when sin entered the world through Eve and destroyed the garden we see history repeat its self, or should i say we see man repeat history...

This same rebelion has also creapt into the congragation as now we see female pastors and preachers in authority over men,this is total rebelion to Gods way and purpose of how things should be,thus the chueches are in rebelion also,the men have become pawns in Satans hands and stiffled
in their leadership roles in the home and church and in their God given authority,the answer to this problem?
If we were to go back to the natural way of things, the way God intended... wives submit to your husbands in all things as unto Christ..
GB

The Women's Movement contributed to the increase in divorce rate,

[eve]

Christ is not Jesus' last name. Deeper study will prove that the word Christians were used in a negative way and even deeper study will show that Paul had his own thing going on and the orginal Bible tells us to be aware of alot of things this Bible's interpretation tell us to embrace. If you get a chance click on Graceway Ministry Show. Go back to Soul-n-Black's interview 'The tenth' & MeatBall's interview. I know you will be informed.

be blessed,
eve

[Preacher]

Permalink Reply by eve on June 23, 2010 at 11:46am
Christ is not Jesus' last name. Deeper study will prove that the word Christians were used in a negative way and even deeper study will show that Paul had his own thing going on and the orginal Bible tells us to be aware of alot of things this Bible's interpretation tell us to embrace. If you get a chance click on Graceway Ministry Show. Go back to Soul-n-Black's interview 'The tenth' & MeatBall's interview. I know you will be informed.





You're Lying...

[eve]

Dear Brother it seems that you are FOR REAL IN YOUR QUEST of the TRUTH & NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH. So since you are so deep in your search I do believe you would appreciate the interesting questions associated with this read. When you get a chance do visit: http://www.evilbible.com.

Be Blessed. One thing I KNOW is... "THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE...'COULD OUR SLAVE MASTERS, really, GIVE US THE TRUTH THAT WILL SET US 'FREE'? hummmmmm I wonder?

Love you MUCHY,
eve
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/The-FamilyUnityShow

[WILLIAMS EGBE]

Emotional carelessness is one the major reasons marriages fail. One one the dangerous arrows against marriage today is porn. It is a dangerous web of influence targeted against the emotion of any on involved. Couples are breaking up because of this.In marriage Emotions should be consciously guarded by the word of God.

[Preacher]

what about before there was easy access to porn?

[MINISTER PAULISA J PARROTT]

SIN THAT BRING FORTH A SINNER

[Minister Taylor]

In my opinion, ALL relationships must be Christ centered in order to be workable and remain fruitful through trials and testings. There also must be self acceptance/love before we can ever make any attempt to reach out to others for relational solutions/escapism. The excerpt below was found to be interesting...not to say that it is an absolute, as you and I know the only absolute in anything is the foundation of GODLINESS. Morals, character, and integrity plays a huge roll in how we interact in life and with others, especially in marriage. It is said, we often judge others by their actions and ourselves by our intentions. One of the important essentials most employers seek out today in the job market is persons who are great "team players." Team player, someone who demonstrates reliablity, communicates constructively, listens actively, functions as an active participant, shares openly and willingly, cooperates and pitches in to help, exhibits flexibilty, shows commitment to the team, works as a problem-solver, and treats others in a respectful and supportive manner.

Wow, this sounds so much like a person who is yielded to God; less of me and more of you, none of me and all of you Lord...


30 Ways A MARRIAGE IS GUARANTEED TO FAIL by Aubrey Hammack

Usually at the top of the list are finances and sex or lack of it and or affairs. But long before these things usually come into play there are things being put into place that virtually ensure the marriage will eventually die. This list is to remind all of us what happens to people whom at one time loved and cared deeply for each other.

Taking each other for granted
Lack of interest in what your mate is involved in
Workaholics
In law problems
No time for each other after the children arrive
Feeling you have nothing in common with each other
Different paths as far as christian beliefs
Not eating meals together
Not sleeping together
Understanding not the effect of nice clothes and perfume
Not traveling together for unannounced trips just to get away and be alone with each other
Living only for the children whether they are small or adults
Not agreeing to disagree
Personal grooming
Taking care of your own health
Spending too much time with family and not enough time with each other
Not watching movies or keeping up with news events together
Not having similar interests
Disagreeing over finances
Not spending one complete hour per week with your mate
Being unable to discuss your own likes and dislikes involving sex
Not able to lay in each other arms and talk of individual dreams
Showing more care and concern for others outside the marriage especially towards one’s nuclear family
No kissing or touching each other
No attempts to please a mate
Not having the ability to seize the moment for a heart to heart talk
Thinking your mate is always wrong
Not having sexual intercourse
Having a feeling that your mate is the enemy
Not truly caring enough about the person you are married to in order to at least discuss any of the above items that just may be the solution

I appreciate William Cottringer suggesting three additional ways to help a marriage fail. They are:

31) Not Understanding the other person

32) Not Laughing with the other person

34) Not attending church regularly together


Thanks, may the Lord continue to bless and favor each of us as we all learn and grow together in the body of Christ for a better/healthier impact in a world of lost sinners... who desperately need to see JESUS in us as the light.

Minister Taylor

[Sheila Perry-Reveron]

I believe God is the only one that knows why marriages fail. There are so many opinions. God said trust in me....in all things....not a few things....that of course means our marriages as well. God of course should be the center of our marriages....other than that I don't have anything to say because God is the originator of marriage and he knows what's best as long as we ask in His Will. Thanks everyone!

[Preacher]

Some say: submission was not the original plan of God for the roles of men and women"

Genesis 2:23
The man said, "This is now bone of (my) bones and flesh of (my) flesh; she (shal)l be called 'woman,' for she was (taken out of man.")
Eve became Adams wife

and belongs to him,of HIS flesh, of HIS, bone he gives her a name, when someone names you they are your ownner,Adam was in charge of all the animals, he named all the animals,and ruled over them,likewise he named Eve..

Eve is only equal with Adam in that she's not an animal,yet she is not equal in Authority,all authority was given to Adam,Eve was co-authoritives with Adam when it came to the lower life forms as animals,not over Adam..

wives obey your husbands in everything says the scripture,you never read where God commands the husband to Obey the wife...


Evidence that they were indeed husband and wife as soon as they were joined

Genesis 2:25
And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

Sin camethrough Eve originally,but being that Adam was the head he was held responsible alsobeing they are of one flesh..remember HIS FLESH?


2 Corinthians 11:3 But I am afraid that, as the serpent deceived Eve by his craftiness, your minds will be led astray from the simplicity and purity of devotion to Christ.

Genesis 3:4
"You will not surely die," the serpent said to the woman.

Well my friends Satan is saying it again,you can disobey God and you will not surely die,death here meaning the 2nd death, HELL...

God says women are not to preach or teach,Satan says, has God said women shall not preach or teach? God says women are to obey their husbands in everything, Satan says to the woman, has God said women should obey their husbands in everything? as he used Eve's played on Eve's pride the first time, he's playing on Eve's/i mean womas pride again..

Satan says:Isaiah 14:14 'I will ascend above the heights of the clouds; I will make myself like the Most High.'

how will he do this? if he can get people to listen to him over God..as he tried to do with Jesus,but was defeated...you will serve your master whether it be God or sin...

Genesis 3:16 Then he said to the woman, "I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy, and in pain you will give birth.
(And you will desire to control your husband,) but he will rule over you."

but the entrance of sin has made that duty a punishment, which otherwise it would not have been. If man had not sinned, he would always have ruled with wisdom and love; and, if the woman had not sinned, she would always have obeyed with humility and meekness; and then the dominion would have been no grievance: but our own sin and folly make our yoke heavy. If Eve had not eaten forbidden fruit herself, and tempted her husband to eat it, she would never have complained of her subjection; therefore it ought never to be complained of, though harsh; but sin must be complained of, that made it so. Those wives who not only despise and disobey their husbands, but domineer over them, do not consider that they not only violate a divine law, but thwart a divine sentence.

Romans 6:23
For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

hath God said?

[Minister Taylor]

AWESOME, Man of God!

Blessings...

[Min Andrias Shongwe]

I really appreciate your comments Preacher, i like the fact that they are always backed by bible scriptures and thet do make sense. Thank you Sir!