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We read about many preachers and their wives getting a divorce, even national bishops and evangelists who are on television. My question is, why is this happening? Is it something the wife is not doing? Are the men of God wanting their cake and eat it too? Is two big ministries in the family one too many? Is the wives who are also in ministry paying too much attention to their own ministry and not enough on their husbands. What makes the man of God have an affair? What makes the man and woman of God become distant? Please give me your opinion....

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What is happening is very simple,they don't seek the face of God for a wife,they rather go in for women.there's difference between a wife and a woman.God gives a wife, we go in for women.
That makes sense. Is that in every instance though?
AMEN!! REV. HENRY, MANY SEEK HASTILY, "A WOMAN", AND NOT GOD'S CHOICE FOR "THE WIFE"
NOR DO THEY ALLOW GOD TO CHOOSE FOR THEM. SO THEY REAP AND HEAP UPON THEMSLVES, JUST ANOTHER WOMAN.

A WOMAN, WHO IS NOT FITLY JOINT, CHOSEN, NOR APPOINTED FOR GOD AND FOR "THEM" [THAT MAN]:

YOU SEE, PEOPLE OF GOD, " GOD IS A JEALOUS GOD, ANYTHING AND ANYONE WHO STANDS IN HIS WAY, OF HIS EXPRESSED, PERFECT WILL", NO MATTER WHO THAT MAN CHOOSES, IF NOT FROM OR BY GOD; IT WILL BE DISINTEGRATE AND BECOME A KNOWN DIVORCE', "DISTINGUSIED"; EVEN IT BRINGS THE MEDIA, SHAME AND EXPOSURE.

"PASTORS", "LEADERS", "MEN", ALL MUST WAIT UPON THE LORD, BE YE STILL; BE YE HOLY STILL:
FOR THE WOMEN, "WAIT UPON GOD, STAY PURE, STAY STILL AND SEE GOD'S HAND MOVE.
IT WILL BRING FORTH MUCH FRUIT."

APOSTLES SID & LADY SOAR
A husband can't seek God for his wife..the wife has to seek God for herself,and this can only happen if God draws her..

1 Corinthians 7:1
Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry.
God says not to seek a wife if you're free...God says Its better that man never touch a woman..but to avoid sin let every man have his own wife..the divorce rate is so high today for many reason's one is a lack of authority in the " men " and a lack of reverence of God from the wives...

In most cases women try and usurp the man's authority...not only in the homes today,but they have also crept into the congregations as God has vacated the churches...2 Thessalonians 2:7...and they would rule there also...
As with Eve who was deceived by Satan...many women are being deceived into desroying their own homes, and rebeling against God... Proverbs 14:1...

There is an answer, and that answer to the problem of divorce is getting back to bible principles..such as the wives submitting to the husbands in all things godly...in doing so, they submit to God...
Jesus said...If you love me you will keep my words.....
GB
I like what you said and I do agree. Being a woman I have to admit that we can change things if we wanted to. Some women may not agree with me, but I believe that the woman has influence of the atmosphere of the relationship. She can make or break a man, she can be a blessing or a curse. The ball is really in her court.
you're a wise woman...be an example :)
YES DEAR SIS, VIRTOUS VICTORY, THERE IS POWER AND INFLUENCE IN A WOMAN" YES, SHE CAN CERTAINLY MAKE OR BREAK A MAN." IF SHE IS NOT SENT BY GOD, SHE WIL BREAK AND THEN DESTROY THAT MAN.

" TRANSFORMING THEMSELVES, [INFLUENCE-PERSUASION], AS MINSTERS' ANGELS OF LIGHT."."

BLESS YOU
A woman can't break a man or make a man only God can...the only power that a woman has to attempt to break a man is that from Satan..God would never give a woman power over the man to break him...so these women breaking or attempting to break a man are working for Satan to destroy Gods people and end marriages and break families..

Proverbs 14:1
The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down

GB
Minister Sowell,

It is quite refreshing to have a brotha speak from this point of view and not always leaning towards the woman at being the crux of crisis in the marriage.


(if you don't know about the book "The Scarlet Letter" google it...)

It saddens me to see brethren putting women painting scarlet letters on women in general as being out of order in one or various fashions while scarcely mentioning (if at all) some of the poignant issues you brought up here.

When we talk of such things that MUST involve two or more people, we shouldn't place the majority of the blame on either. This reminds of the woman "caught" in adultery who was dragged out into the streets to be stoned.... where was the man? (was he back at the house putting his clothes back on.. washing up a bit?) A person can't commit adultery by themselves.. that would just be masturbation. LOL

Likewise, when we talk of failure in a marriage, success will need the cooperation of BOTH parties.. husband and wife.

Honestly, I truly believe that marriages fail because many if not most people who marry should have never married the person that they married OR they should have waited to get married OR they should have never married at all.

The fact that husbands and wives are not obeying scriptures can be summed up in two sentences:

1. somebody is upset because they are not getting what they want
2. somebody is upset because they are getting what they didn't want

I remember a situation where a couple was having difficulty in the bedroom... because of other issues in the marriage and the husband put the bible in the middle of the bed with a condom on it ... his way of telling his wife to submit. I'm not saying she wasn't suppose to submit according to God's word.. but what a wonderful invitation to an most intimate activity.

Husbands can be so..... GRRRRR
Wives can be so... Witchy-pooh

And we expect there to be harmony? c'mon man... c'mon woman get a grip!
In a related topic... I just posted a discussion here in this group titled "submitted sex in marriage...will it save the marriage"

I'd love to read your comments on it.

Thanks.
Ahhh... so you've read Nathaniel Hawthorne best novel have you? Then, being familiar with the story, you may also understand why I mention it in this PARTICULAR forum? Both antagonist and protaganist sin yet one group is far more vocal about pointing out the sins of .... the others. (smile)



You recognize the persons who live in glass houses as they are the ones yelling the most and the loudest about the sins of other people.

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