ive just married into the ministry and i can say that it truly is a privelege. Im still shocked that God deemed me worthy enough to fill such a position. Ive been married for almost two months now and while i enjoy the some parts of my role, i am kind of uneasy about others. I feel as if i have to be this perfect example of a woman of God. While that ideally isnt a bad thing, i feel as if the people's idea of the pastor's/minister's wife is a bit twisted. i feel as if i must AT-ALL-TIMES wear a smile, look perfect, and always know what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. Its scary to me. Can anyone give those of us with this issue some guidance???