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DOES IT MATTER TO GOD WHAT WE WEAR TO CHURCH?

At the outset of this blog, let me say that those who know me closely often remark that I am such an "old man" in my demeanor and in my way of thinking and reasoning. Some say that I come across as being older than my age because I have such a great measure of wisdom. I'm not quite so sure of that, but I do know this: I am thankful for whatever I am. God, in His grace and mercy, has seen fit to use me as a vessel to preach His word. I only pray that at the end of the journey, I will prove to be faithful to this most sacred and lofty task He has entrusted to me. To borrow from the Apostle Paul, I say, "I am what I am by the grace of God."

If I had to render a description of myself, I would say that I am conventional in my theological views, and balanced in my approach to worship. I have a sincere romance for the traditional style of worship, i.e. that style of worship I experienced as a child growing up in church, but I am by no means resistant to the contemporary style of worship and music, providing it is Scripturally sound. In fact, there are some traditional pieces of what we term "Gospel music" that I feel are inappropriate for worship because they are not Scripturally sound. But I have no qualms with praise teams, praise dancers, drama nor drill teams. My only expectation, in regards to all of these, is that they are executed in such a manner whereby people see Christ and exalt Him, and not focus solely on those of us who are mere vessels.

I have been in the preaching ministry now for more than half of my life; twenty-five years to be exact, with twenty-one of those years invested in pastoral ministry. And of course, I have witnessed some dramatic shifts and swift transitions in the preaching, worship, and music styles of the church. The way we "do church" has changed dramatically in the span of time that I've been in ministry. Some of the changes I think have been beneficial for the life of the church, and then there are other changes that I view as being detrimental to the health of the church. In fact, some changes even oppose the very Christian faith which the New Testament Church is to embrace, guard, and perpetuate through evangelism. But I want to use this blog to address one change in particular that I have noticed in the church, and that is the manner in which many said-to-be Christians dress now when they attend worship.

Right away, some readers will dismiss this blog, and consider it backwards and petty. Such persons subscribe to the common notion that "God doesn't care about what a person has on; it's not about your outward appearance, but about your heart. God wants you to come as you are." But if you are a person of reason, and if you accept the possibility that sometimes one can sincerely believe a matter to be true, but be misguided in their perception of what is true, I ask you to give me a fair and honest hearing.

Obviously, my proposition here is that when one attends the public worship, they should wear clothing that is appropriate for worship. More bluntly, we should dress UP when we come before the Lord rather than dress DOWN.

In support of this, I offer for your consideration several points of Scripture which plainly teach that God is concerned with our outward appearance as well as with the state of our heart.

The very first time in Scripture where we learn that God cares about what kind of clothes we wear in His presence occurs in the dawn of human existence. Genesis 3:21 says, "Also for Adam and his wife the Lord God made tunics of skin, and CLOTHED them." Adam and Eve were not naked. To cover their sense of shame and embarrassment after their act of sin, they made clothes for themselves---"they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves coverings" (Gen. 3:7c). However, their self-fashioned clothes did not meet God's approval. So God Himself opened up a tailoring shop right there in Eden, and designed clothing for them that suited His standards and taste.

Clearly, what Adam and Eve wore mattered enough to God for Him to make them some clothes that were appropriate in His presence. Their clothing and fashion was not a trivial and insignificant matter in the sight of God. God here teaches us a vital lesson at the very outset of humanity. If we would find acceptance in His presence, we must meet come before Him in the manner that pleases Him. God is sovereign and holy, and when we rightly reverence Him, we do not come before Him anyway we please. God is not only interested in the state of our attitude, or heart (the inner man) but even the state of our appearance(the outer man).

The second point I want to lift for your consideration is in Exodus 28 where God gives specific details for the holy vestments (clothes) Aaron, the priest, was to wear when he went before God to minister in the sanctuary. Verse 2 says, "And you shall make holy garments for Aaron your brother, for GLORY and for BEAUTY."

Our God, throughout Scripture, reveals Himself to be One who loves BEAUTY. Everything God made has beauty---not only in form but also in design and purpose. Not only does He love beauty, but He loves decency and order. Creation reflects this. Thus, the basis of Paul's admonition to the church in Corinth: "Let all things be done DECENTLY and IN ORDER" (1 Cor. 14:40).

Aaron's garments were distinguished. They were for "BEAUTY and GLORY." When he went before God to minister, God wanted him DRESSED UP, not DRESSED DOWN. In this, he showed deep reverence and respect for both the PLACE of GOD and the PERSON of GOD. If he did not go before God DRESSED UP in the garments of beauty and holiness, the consequence was death (Ex. 28:43). God was serious about the clothes they wore to church, if you will, that He would kill them for not wearing the proper garments.

God designated a dress code for the Old Testament priests. Today, all believers are priests before God. "But you are a chosen generation, A ROYAL PRIESTHOOD, a holy nation, His own special people, that you may proclaim the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light" (1 Peter 2:9). As royal priests in the service of the King, we should desire to come before Him in the beauty of holiness. "Give unto the Lord the glory due to His name; worship the Lord in the beauty of holiness" (Psalm 29:2). The phrase "in the beauty of holiness" means "in holy attire," "in the vestments of the sanctuary," or "in the beautiful robes of the priesthood." True holiness is of the soul, to be sure, but what is true on the inside should be reflected on the outside.

Back in the day, we didn't dare wear just anything to church! We were instructed to go before the Lord in dignity, in beauty, and glory. We wore the very best we had in our wardrobe. In fact. we had what were called "church clothes" and "church shoes." They were worn only on the Lord's Day, and maybe PICTURE DAY at school.

More than many fully recognize, what we wear says a lot about who we are. Our clothes are but a mere expression of our personality; who we really are. You can identify a thug by his clothes. You can identify a whore by her clothes. You can identify a biker by his clothes. When we come before God, others should be able to identify us as a people of faith by our clothes. When they see us, they should be able to tell that we are on our way to the house of God for worship. But even our daily dress should reflect our faith. A Christian shouldn't be caught wearing any and every thing. Some clothing ought not be worn by believers. Our clothing should always reflect modesty and decency.

God does care about what we wear to church, but also what we wear away from church. We are His people, and should not allow the world to mold us, even by its fashions (cf. Romans 12:2).

When God designated Aaron's priestly clothes, He didn't ask Aaron what he thought about, or what style and fashion he preferred. God ordered what was pleasing to Him. And we have to learn that when we come before the Lord, its not about US. We come so that God may be glorified. If glorifying Him means that we have to be inconvenienced and lay aside what suits our tastes and preferences, then so be it. He ought to be worth it since He inconvenienced Himself for us. He took off His clothes of divinity, to put on the clothes of humanity, and endured the discomfort of the cross for us. Surely, we shouldn't mind getting DRESSED UP for HIM!

The last point of Scripture I want you to consider in connection with this matter of clothing is a word in the New Testament. Mark 5:15 says, "Then they came to Jesus, and saw the one who had been demon-possessed and had the legion, sitting and CLOTHED and in his right mind. And they were afraid." Others knew a change had occurred in the Gaderene demonic by both his behavior and his appearance. When the devil had him, he didn't care how he looked. He went through the community looking any kind of way. He went through the community stark naked with no shame. But when Jesus got a hold of him, he put on some clothes, and adhered to the law of public decency. His behavior became dignified. His change was not only an INSIDE issue, but it showed up on the OUTSIDE also.

Our young men walk the streets showing their butts and with their pants almost down to their knees because the devil got 'em. Our young ladies go around exhibiting their anatomical and fleshly treasures as they wear clothes too revealing because the devil got 'em. People come to church before the MOST HOLY GOD of heaven and earth, the SOVEREIGN LORD, the KING of KINGS wearing any and every thing, showing little or no regard and reverence for His holiness because the devil got 'em. But when the Lord gets you, you'll care about your appearance in church and out of church. He puts dignity and decency in your heart and habits. He puts you in your right mind. And when you have a right mind, you will care about what you wear before the Lord and before men.

All these incidents of Scripture serve to show clearly that it does matter to God what we wear to church, and what we wear in the public.

What is acceptable in the night club ain't acceptable in the house of the Lord.
What is acceptable in the work place ain't good enough for the house of the Lord.
What is acceptable at school ain't good enough for the house of the Lord.

When we come before the Lord in His sanctuary, we ought to DRESS UP because we're GOING UP!

GOD DESERVES OUR VERY BEST...even in our appearance and dress

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Comment by PASTOR CHARLES E BELL JR on July 20, 2009 at 10:06pm
we should give God our Best . if job tell us to wear suits every day we will .Why cant we do this for Chirst he wants our best dont seconds.
Comment by terrance douthard on July 18, 2009 at 2:39am
i'll dismiss myself from your blog
Comment by Pastor T. A. Smith Sr on July 18, 2009 at 2:39am
Ok, Deacon Terrance. Perhaps we are speaking to the same subject with two different groups in mind. My blog is really addressing those who have been in a church for a while. They should know what is appropriate dress for church. As it relates to those who are new converts to Christ or seriously seeking Christ, let them come as they are.
I have people who come to our church who don't have we might call "church clothes" but I don't run them away. I realize that I have to win them to Christ first, and then I have to help them understand what is acceptable to wear in church. And in a number of cases, I have personally helped them, if they needed financial assistance.
Jesus changes everything about our lives if we have been truly been saved.
Comment by terrance douthard on July 18, 2009 at 2:28am
pastor smith,bless you and i appreciate yor wisdom. my response was never intenteded for arguement it was solely based on my not understanding one of your statement's and my experience dealing with people as your blog addresses.as you mentioned in your last response, "i do not see it exactly as you do" should'nt be a reason to abstain from any further discussion of this matter,but i accept and respect your not wanting to discuss this matter any further with me. if we cant agree to disagree i'm fine with that. i still believe souls coming to church and turning their life over to Jesus out weigh's whether they are wearing a t shirt or a tie
Bless you
Comment by Pastor T. A. Smith Sr on July 17, 2009 at 9:54pm
Terrance, I appreciate your honest sharing. I do not see it exactly as you do, however. The video you sent is only further proof of my point...everything is not appropriate for church. Pastor E Dewey Smith makes some great points in that clip. However, people cannot know on their own what is and what isn't appropriate unless they are taught. Jesus said in Matthew 28:20: "teach them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you." And that's, chiefly, the pastor's responsibility. Furthermore, what is appropriate in one house is not necessarily appropriate in another house. I think each pastor has a certain measure of liberty to set the standard for the house God sets him over. I expect my ministers and deacons to have ties and suits on in worship. The young men do not have to have on a suit, but they need to have on a pair of Kaki's or dress pants and a dress shirt--not a t shirt. The ladies are expected to be in dresses or skirts that are appropriate for a Christian woman. Some people may not like those rules. That's fine. That just means that I'm not the one to shepherd them, and they have the liberty to worship somewhere else.
At the end of the day, Christ holds each pastor accountable for what happens in the life of the church He places him over. And members have to learn to respect his authority. If he is wrong, the Lord will correct him.
I'm not here to argue, or force my theological views upon others, therefore I will abstain from any further discussion of this matter with you. You have your view, and I have mine. Yet we are brothers in Christ. And in Christ, I love you anyway.
Comment by terrance douthard on July 17, 2009 at 6:43pm
you are absolutey right
Comment by Eric Hancock on July 17, 2009 at 6:41pm
I agree with all of you,,the reason I said that is this still an issue because I thought that Everyone should have known by now,,,now I do understand that for the ones who may not can afford proper attire then there should be some leverage,,but for those who do then there is no excuse..I have some who disagree with me before saying God is more pleased that they came in and got delivered compared to how they look,,I believe that much is given much is REQUIRED,,once that they have gotten themselves in order then they should know that proper attire is Required...or,,maybe it's me!!!
Comment by terrance douthard on July 17, 2009 at 6:36pm
PASTOR SMITH, I APPRECIATE THE CLARITY. BEING A CHURCH MEMBER I UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE IN WHAT'S APPROPRIATE FOR CHURCH AND WHAT'S NOT. THERE ARE PEOPLE AT MY CHURCH THAT DRESS DOWN EVERY SUNDAY, DOES IT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THIER SALVATION? HUM........ I WONT GIVE ANYMORE OPINION'S. I SAY THIS TO SAY, I ENCOUNTER SO MANY PEOPLE HERE IN MINNEAPOLIS THAT WON'T GO TO CHURCH AND I'LL QUOTE "I DON'T HAVE NOTHING TO WEAR" NOW PEOPLE DRESSING IN PROVOCATIVE ATTIRE IS ANOTHER ISSUE LET'S DO THE FISHING AND LET GOD CLEAN THE FISH
Comment by Tara Robinson on July 17, 2009 at 5:54pm
I can agree with this topic we must be mindful of how we dress when in Church. My self personally I am always bringing a scarf with me to cover my legs that's just what i do and I check the cleveage of ALL my tops to make sure when i bend no thing falls out I always use a pin when needed and carry extras for other women I am also this way when not at church. I realized a long time ago that i serve a HOLY GOD and i represent him at all times and my job is to set the example. I don't over do it with makeup or jewelry my clothes are nice I keep it simple my goal is that when GOD looks at me he can be pleased by my behavior in him.
Comment by Pastor T. A. Smith Sr on July 17, 2009 at 4:54pm
AMEN! AMEN AMEN! Lady Stallings You are right on point. I say often in the pulpit of First Baptist Church, the church is the ONLY place where we go and feel that we have the right to do whatever we please, and get mad and quit if we are corrected. People come to church as they please because we don't have any standards in the church, and we don't confront people in love when they violate those standards.
When I insited on a dress code in our church, one parent told me her son didn't care to dress up, and because of his size found it difficult to find dress clothes. Yet when he went to prom, he was able to get a tuxedo. He was decked out. People do what they want to do, and make excuses when it comes when it comes to the Lord and the church.

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