SAVED, SINGLE & MISERABLE!

[Apostle Rolanda Ross]

There are so many single & miserable women in the Body Of Christ! We are all over the place. Ushers, culinary dept.,
finance room, greeters, and yes pulpits. We have learned to fake it till we make it. We shout on top of it, we dance on top of it and we earnestly pray about it. But the truth remains there are a lot of single miserable women! Why? Does this mean we are not saved? No! I believe we need to get our heads together. By this I mean our thinking. It's not easy living this thing single and some married folk say it's hard living a monogomous life. In any event, its our way of thinking. We have to learn how to minister to ourselves, entertain ourselves without sinning. Its a transformation that can and will take place if we seek the Lord for HELP! NOT EASILY ATTAINED BUT POSSIBLE!
There is hope! Notice in the word miserable the word "able" GOD IS ABLE! Anybody feelin me?

[Apostle Rolanda Ross]

@ Spirit... such an amazing testimony! Bless you!  @tlhawkins.. thanks for your input, So inspiring! Blessings to you all for your comments!

 

[favour 44]

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[Apostle Rolanda Ross]

Sis Hawkins after reading your comment I wanted to ask if someone ask you out you already have marriage on your mind or intentions of? Wow that is amazing to me. What aboout establishing relationships? Like just buddies and going out to have fun and a nice time?

[Apostle Rolanda Ross]

i have heard and seen many people seek God for a mate and God granted. They are living happy saved lives in the Lord. You better seek the Lord for a mate! While God is a jealous God, some of us will have wholesome marriages in the Lord.

[T.L. Hawkins]

Amen Prophetess Newton...First Lady and Tamara. All excellent points. I agree Prophetess what works for one person may not necessarily work for the next, but the one and only thing that will work for all in ANY struggle is seeking God's face.
We ALL struggle on some level or another and as long as you're running for Jesus, the enemy is going to throw SOMETHING in your path to try and trip you up. BE YE STEADFAST, UNMOVABLE, ALWAYS ABOUNDING IN THE WORKS OF THE LORD! Don't let the enemy in and don't let the enemy win. Single, married, miserable or not...As Apostle Ross said...GOD IS ABLE

[Love for Jesus]

I agree with you Tarmeque. What people must understand that passion of seeking for a mate can lead to BONDAGE. Because it takes you to a place of satisfying the flesh...... My God Jehovah is a very jealous God. My saints you must be very careful of not making a mate into an idol in your life. The peace that surpasses all understanding comes from God. God is first. When you see a person that is desperate, miserable, crazy, anxious.... This is a place of bondage and fear and they must seek the face of GOD, ASAP. It is a dangerous place to be. "Seek the kingdom of God and all things shall be added unto you"....

[Spirit]

I went through a period of "singleness", when God decided it was time for me to seek Him in EVERYTHING i did, i gave my relationships over to him. i stopped dating, stopped flirting, it was as if i had starting being committed to a husband i did not have. when i would go through a hard time (usually when it rained), i would pray to God to remove the feeling of being alone from me, and I tell you He did it everytime. God wanted me to start seeking a relationship with Him and being satisfied with Him alone. I did not date for about 2 years. my focus was on God. my time was spent in church and in my bible, at home, alone. but on the day God did deliver my husband, it was something from a movie. MORE THAN I COULD HAVE EVER IMAGINED!!! More than I could have done on my own. So I say if you are single and desiring to be married, take some time to be satisfied with the Father first. and trust me when i say, he will give you your hearts desire, and more.

but be satisfied...

~First

[T.L. Hawkins]

WOW! I'm Saved and Single, but not miserable. I can't really say I can relate to the misery. Fleshly temptations come, but it is GOD that keeps me. I've been married..that's a whole different story and blog. My marriage (for me) was HARDER than being saved and single. WHY? Because the man I married wasn't FOR me. I DIDN'T wait on God. When I stopped looking, searching and seeking a mate is when God gave me TOTAL peace being single. Sure, I get asked "out" or however you'd like to say it, but, if there is NO intent on marriage or committment, there's no use in me wasting my time. God made us to be WITH someone, but sometimes, we have to be ALONE so we can learn to STAY focused on GOD. I've seen people "neglect" God, because of marital issues. Put God first in your life NOW and KEEP him FIRST in your life after marriage is the advice I give to ANY saved person.