I was sitting thinking about how many people will come to you and /or call you for advice when they are going through and then will get angry with you after the response you give is not favorable to or accepted by them. I am beginning to accept that a lot of the time they really don't want your opinion..all they want is someone to rant, rage and complain to about their situation to and if you do give your opinion suddenly you become the enemy.
I have found it true also that if you have family members or friends who continually come to you and tell you they are hurting, being mentally, emotionally or even physically abused..your reaction is sometimes to get angry with the person who is causing the abuse and although you try to stay bias in the situation it is only human to advise them to leave or do what is necessary to make things better in such relationships..
But what happens when you give advise and then as stated in the beginning they make up (temporarily till the next incident) with the person and now the alleged abuser is once again the love of their life and they now see you as the one who is causing them hurt or pain because you told them to get out of the situation or that they desire better?
I have been dealing with this a lot as a friend, relative and as a minister,.the world say, oh..you should not say any thing just let them vent, thet'll be alright in the end but what exactly does the Lord say about this..Your'e the "bad" person for telling the truth..but when you say nothing they say you are uncaring about them or their situation..so what do you do?
I open the floor to discussion and ask all to give your insight on this subject and please do quote, write and apply all scriptures that apply as well.
Thanks in advance and I do this in prayer that someone's life, lifestyle and views may be changed and that all of us shall be changed for the better after this discussion.
God bless each of you in advance that will respond to this.
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This entire post will be added to all my web pages because I feel it is such a important subject matter and many will benefit from your answers!.
HOW CAN TWO WALK TOGETHER UNLESS THEY AGREE?
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