I wanted to know what is the right way to go about trying to fix your marriage during a time where the spouses are living in two separate homes? What should the wife be doing? What should the husband be doing?

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The wife and husband should be working on themselves. Deal with whatever baggage that need to be dealt with. Praying to God for his guidance and asking him to fix you. Don't date outsiders. If they're considering getting together they can begin to start dating all over again. Forgetting and forgiveness is going to play a great deal in this relationship if they're willing to try at the marriage again. Patients is a virtue, and is needed in dealing in this type of situation.
Thank you Evangelist M. Sounds good.
If there has been a time period of healing and the two know can reconcile the marriage. First thing is to talk about the hurt each one caused the other. Yes hurt the other. It takes two to make a marriage work. Second, learn to date each other. Third. this is especially for the men. DO the things you did to win her. Four, Women do the things you did to be found. I have no answer if you two decide to stay seperated.
In my opinion, this is an excellent time for both parties to seek the face of God. If the key words " trying to fix" in this statement are applicable, I would assume that both parties are attempting to do so. The fact that each spouse lives in a different home, can be a difficult hurdle to overcome, but it is definitely attainable. Spousal dating that has no prominent tone of reconciliation, but rather allowing each spouse to genuinely see the other as "good company" can be an excellent place to start! Not to be over done, noone likes pressure, but an agreed upon time frame and some patience, A cup of coffee and some smiles may go a long way!
I disagree, we were not created to be ourselves, we were created to be like Christ,and thoes of us who are born of God become like Christ...as we look back in history we find that the more power women were given the higher the divorce rate climbed.

The Women's Movement changed society. Do you think it was for the better or worse? For example, there was a time when very few women had careers, most were full-time stay at home moms. There was a time that women were not allowed to fight alongside men in combat. There was a time when men carried the full load of providing for home and family. In other words, the roles for men and women were much more defined than they are today.

Our fIrst femminist was none other than our forst mother Eve,and that rebelion has grown down threw the centuries,to the very point which it is today,teen pregnancy,abortion rights,divorce,and the destruction of millions of familes,just as when sin entered the world through Eve and destroyed the garden we see history repeat its self, or should i say we see man repeat history...

This same rebelion has also creapt into the congragation as now we see female pastors and preachers in authority over men,this is total rebelion to Gods way and purpose of how things should be,thus the chueches are in rebelion also,the men have become pawns in Satans hands and stiffled
in their leadership roles in the home and church and in their God given authority,the answer to this problem?
If we were to go back to the natural way of things, the way God intended... wives submit to your husbands in all things as unto Christ..
GB
Hello Lavittia, If the couple is living in separate homes there is a very good reason why. First, let me ask a few questions. How long did they know each other before marriage? Did they have discussions of major concerns before they married? Does the man know WHO, WHAT & HOW... concerning WHO he is? Does the Woman know any of the same things? There are so many questions and concerns that are suppose to be faced BEFORE MARRIAGE and NOT after.

I think most of us have VERY POOR EXAMPLES OF real marriage. And trying to get a real understanding out of our modern day Bibles seems to be an interesting course. I always say GIVE WHAT YOU WANT TO RECIEVE. Some of the Kings of old lived in sepreate homes... but most of them had many wifes ;0)

Learn WHO we are before we start tring to SHARE what we don't know... and then expecting someone else to UNDERSTAND... WHEW... mankind.

Love you MUCHY,
eve

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