Dear Sister Granger, you answered your own question. All women are not meant to be married and there is nothing wrong with that. All women are not meant to bear children and there is not wrong with that. If it is God's will for a woman to have a husband, He will direct their paths to each other. All these marriages that we see today are self made and God has nothing to do with it, this is why we are seeing so many divorces. First seek the Kingdom of God and HIS righteousness and all things will be added unto you. God knows the desires of HIS....and He will not see them begging or looking for anything, He will bring them to it. When a woman make God her FIRST, He will know what she represents and will direct a husband to her if it is HIS WILL.
In Love Sister Denise
How would you know whether someone is looking for you or not?
This make be a simplistic comparison, but I suspect there is similarity to being naturally lost (eg, in a dense wilderness or on a deserted island). You have to calm down, stop running circles, (proverbially) construct a lean-to and start a fire -- settle in for the wait to be found.