I have noticed a trend among young people, many are getting into oral sex , anal sex, and same sex relationships.
And guess what it is going on right in the church.

I am preparing a series of lessons What the bible said about sex.

I am doing a poll.

Please reply
Is oral sex wrong?
Is anal sex wrong?

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WOW
Cheer up huh? I don't know how to respond without offending someone so I'll take the safe route: WOW!
Brothers, you are not perverts, there is no law against oral sex, and as I stated initially these intimate matters are between the husband, wife and God.

A man should seek to please his wife and a wife should please her husband, we minister to each others needs.

as long as there is love and respect shown to each other, we are to enjoy what God has joined us with.
Oh is that what we call it,,MINISTERING? LOL
LOL, alright Bro,
Brother Watson
I agree
Evangelist Altha Fugett
thankyou for cofirming that we're not PERVERTS Just Men of Yah/God who was Ordained to please Our wifes By any means necessary
watch yourself Preacher..LOL..
This is difficult for me to answer because I don't have any children but I think leaving the responsibility up to the school to educate the youth about sex & the risk of STD's STIs and HIV is crazy.

I'm not going to get into the specifics of sex, but I will say, In todays generation the only wrong thing about sex is unprotected sex. When you are going over the subject of STDs and STIs with your teenager or college undergrad young adult it would be a good idea to show them photos, "seeing is believing." Photos of STDs & STIs are good reminders of the risk in catching STDs & STIs. Let them see the photos of herpes, syphilis, chlamydia, and gonorrhea regularly. And even though the likely hood of transmission of HIV from oral sex is low, if it's done often enough your chances are extremely high because your more inclined because the risk is low. Remember times are not that different from your generation, just technology, media, engineering & the sciences have advanced. So don't try and run game on your child. Sheltering them will only make them want to show their independence & they may be quicker to experiment away from your control over them. Teenagers & college undergrads with their feet on the ground will not be so quick to experiment, so their safety net would be to have just one partner and just experiment with that one partner. So, in that case, if they trust their partner to be faithful using protection will run their risk level down to 0 against STDs, STIs & HIV.
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For the Grown-up & the risk of STDs & STIs
I like to note before I start on the next subject of risk: I'm not an expert on the matter because I'm not gay or bisexual and in today society, it's important to clear up, I never been gay or a bisexual. I hope I don't offend folks speaking on this matter.

I think the first thing black women should know about the danger of oral sex & sex. Some men can have women and the rest of the world see them as a heterosexual, the two are in a monogamous relationship, but the male partner is having sex outside the relationship with other "down low" men which places both of them them at a high risk & if that woman leaves that man & start another relationship with a heterosexual man she places him at risk.

For lesbian & bisexual women here is something important to remember sexually transmitted infections [STIs] can be spread through woman to woman sex. I'm not going to go into the details of how you can catch STIs or STDs because you can look that up yourself.

Yours truly,
Anthony Smith
I see where your going and have mixed feelings...you said...This is difficult for me to answer because I don't have any children but I think leaving the responsibility up to the school to educate the youth about sex & the risk of STD's STIs and HIV is crazy....WELL if the parent is not teachable how can they teach?? so I rather the teacher instead of the PIMP or Homosexuall teach them because they are going to misguide them..the street are unconditional whatever your handicap is,, it is exceptable,, this is not good,we need Teachers in and out the Church to be the trainning wheels in someone's life

you said
And even though the likely hood of transmission of HIV from oral sex is low, if it's done often enough your chances are extremely high because your more inclined because the risk is low. Remember times are not that different from your generation, just technology,..WELL...people agreed that it should be done with Husband and wife ONLY..now I do agree that when married it should be NO CREEPING because YES thats how desease and infections surface..NO man or woman should not be in a Position where there partner is SECRETLY having a sexual affair and the other is Oblivious to the fact and when one finds out then YES SEX PERIOD should stop ..but when both parties are faithful then as everyone has shared ,,NOTHINGS is WRONG with it
I believe in teaching young people what their body parts are actually for! I also believe what a married couple do between them is between them!
*1 Corinthians 7:2-5. "But since there is so much immorality,
-(The world has made so many sexual activities common place)-
*each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband -
(What they do should be respectful and of mutual interest and for the betterment of their relationship).-
*The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife-
( He should constantly try to find ways to stimulate her and satisfy her as well as take care of her in many other ways. Women are more responsive to touch),
*and likewise the wife to her husband-
( knowing him includes knowing what fetishes and turn ons he may harbor and doing what she can to keep his focus on her.Men are more responsive visually).
*The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife.
( We were told to wait until we were married so that we can explore and grow closer in love and intimacy and discover the secret things that has not been shared with any other).
*Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time-
(Sex should not be used as a weapon or a means of control over one another but a bridge that reminds the other that they are the one and only object of each others desires,but once within every 30 days there should be a mutual consent for a time to come out of the flesh love and increase in spiritual love.This is a time to strengthen other aspects of your relationship),
*so that you may devote yourselves to prayer-
(Pray and thank God for the gift of Love and Life, co-existing affectionately and building each other up completely).
*Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
(Satan will tempt your curiosity of such things with the introduction of those who appeal to the touch and to the eye, those who flatter and seduce and are willing to get drunk on stolen waters by doing the very things your loved one is not willing to do)!
AS FOR YOUR OTHER QUESTION;
"Some doors are for entering and some doors are exits only!"
First, sex between man and wife is THEIR business.
Who are YOU, me or the next supposed apostle or bishop to have a right to tell a man and his wife how they are to love each other sexually?
The church needs to stop with their control issues.
The BIBLE says that the marriage bed s undefiled so as long as there is nothing perverted (threesomes, children, animals) being used in the marriage bed WHY are we trying to tell people what they can or cannot do?
Who gave us that right?
Where the Bible is silent we need to be silent as well.
What you may like the next man might not like.
What one wife may like the next wife may not like.
That is why communication in marriage is important- if there is a problem THEN be ready when they come to you for an answer.
Other than that let's stay out of business that does not belong to us.

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