Well this is really more so 2 the men on here...Let me start with some back ground I am a single pastor who was @ one point engaged to another preacher. We did not work for many reasons but one was that he thought I was too envolved with my church, but in my defence it did not keep me from being a very good women to him. I was not the type to neglect him to go to church and I would give him my scheulde and I told him if he felt I was doing to much or that I was getting overwhelmed to pull my coat tail a bit. So I guess here is my question. Do you think it is possabile for a women to be a great pastor and a great wife, or should we have to chose, and would you date a women pastor?