Yes, God must do the drawing. But what if you know that God did the drawing and futher down (years) you learn the pastor does not want to marrry....again. He likes his freedom, and he wants a relationship, so he say but he behaves as if he doesn't yet he shows interest in some women and still even in you. He acts like he doesn't want you to show interest in no one else, but he continues to to play the game of flirting. What do you do?
Pastors are not without excuse. They have a flesh as well and must be held accountable just like the rest of the body. Just because you are a leader doesn't mean the enemy will NOT temp you like others. As a matter of fact, they're tempted more because they are leaders. When one stand upright before God, they watch and pray on all hands. They have others around them at all times, especially when they have a woman of God in mind for marriage.