What a Background Check WON'T Tell You!
What a background check WON'T tell you!
Whether you are networking for business or pleasure, doing some online dating or call yourself looking for love on the internet, performing a background check can find out a few things, (like if he is a recent criminal) but it is totally WORTHLESS when it comes to gauging someones personal personality.
You can usually tell within 90 days whether this person is someone you need in your life. But here are some clues to take heed to and RUN FOR THE HILLS!
A Background check won't tell you if he/she is :
1. A LIAR- is their photo up to date? are there photos on their profile that do not belong to them or are no longer relevant? Do the photos have names on them or just numbers? You be the judge!
2. A SCAMMER- Owns or rents a house but won't allow you to come visit? Won't give you his correct address? Time to move on!
3. HAS ANGER PROBLEMS- Watch their reaction when you say "You can't come this weekend, something has come up." Keep Stepping!
4. SEE'S YOU AS DESPERATE- To some people, if you are single, middle aged and alone on a saturday night, you must be desperate for love and will have an affair with ANYONE! Yes, this hurts when you find out that's what they think of you and think's that you would stoop to their level.
"ONLY FOOLS LIE TO THOSE WHOSE TRUST THEY NEED." DElATTRE 2002
With that said, be careful and watchful and prayerful about whom you seek.
God bless you!
Whether you are networking for business or pleasure, doing some online dating or call yourself looking for love on the internet, performing a background check can find out a few things, (like if he is a recent criminal) but it is totally WORTHLESS when it comes to gauging someones personal personality.
You can usually tell within 90 days whether this person is someone you need in your life. But here are some clues to take heed to and RUN FOR THE HILLS!
A Background check won't tell you if he/she is :
1. A LIAR- is their photo up to date? are there photos on their profile that do not belong to them or are no longer relevant? Do the photos have names on them or just numbers? You be the judge!
2. A SCAMMER- Owns or rents a house but won't allow you to come visit? Won't give you his correct address? Time to move on!
3. HAS ANGER PROBLEMS- Watch their reaction when you say "You can't come this weekend, something has come up." Keep Stepping!
4. SEE'S YOU AS DESPERATE- To some people, if you are single, middle aged and alone on a saturday night, you must be desperate for love and will have an affair with ANYONE! Yes, this hurts when you find out that's what they think of you and think's that you would stoop to their level.
"ONLY FOOLS LIE TO THOSE WHOSE TRUST THEY NEED." DElATTRE 2002
With that said, be careful and watchful and prayerful about whom you seek.
God bless you!
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Permalink Reply by Chaplain Pat Harris on
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Thanks for the warning, but I would prefer to wait on God to connect me with the man of God He has chosen for me. :-)
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Permalink Reply by Evangelist Cookie Hunter on
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As we all should. God bless.
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