WHAT SHOULD I DO IF MY HUSBAND COMMIT ADULTERY? - Black Preaching Network2024-03-28T09:37:23Zhttps://abcpreachers.ning.com/forum/topics/what-should-i-do-if-my-husband?feed=yes&xn_auth=noI Totally agree with my siste…tag:abcpreachers.ning.com,2009-12-09:916966:Comment:11334952009-12-09T02:57:15.065ZMinister Marilyn Bloodworthhttps://abcpreachers.ning.com/profile/MinisterMarilynBloodworth
I Totally agree with my sister. It really is between you and God. Amen Evangelist Altha Fugett.
I Totally agree with my sister. It really is between you and God. Amen Evangelist Altha Fugett. Bless your heart seek God in…tag:abcpreachers.ning.com,2009-09-02:916966:Comment:9631122009-09-02T02:27:14.457ZRev. Eric Culberson Jr.https://abcpreachers.ning.com/profile/RevCulberson
Bless your heart seek God in this situation.
Bless your heart seek God in this situation. Rev. Eric,
Thank you. This is…tag:abcpreachers.ning.com,2009-09-02:916966:Comment:9631062009-09-02T02:22:20.261ZOmoola Gracahttps://abcpreachers.ning.com/profile/OmoolaGraca
Rev. Eric,<br />
Thank you. This is prevalent among so many believers here. Also, taboo means, "Abhor". Kids are involved.One has to think about the future of these children. The risks are very high.<br />
Of late, a sister ran away to another town with her 2kids. It is no longer bearable for my friend.
Rev. Eric,<br />
Thank you. This is prevalent among so many believers here. Also, taboo means, "Abhor". Kids are involved.One has to think about the future of these children. The risks are very high.<br />
Of late, a sister ran away to another town with her 2kids. It is no longer bearable for my friend. No, not divorce but seperate…tag:abcpreachers.ning.com,2009-08-29:916966:Comment:9586692009-08-29T22:52:29.319ZRev. Eric Culberson Jr.https://abcpreachers.ning.com/profile/RevCulberson
No, not divorce but seperate yourself from the situation. Now where do you live, again remember I said it wont be easy but you must realize that staying right there in the midst is a very unhealthy situation why you may ask.<br />
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1. Are there kids involved? This will not be the ideal situation for you and them to have to endure.<br />
2. Your own physical and pshycological health are at risk. STD's, Depression, nervous breakdown.<br />
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Remeber if your a beliver there is no such thing as taboo because in…
No, not divorce but seperate yourself from the situation. Now where do you live, again remember I said it wont be easy but you must realize that staying right there in the midst is a very unhealthy situation why you may ask.<br />
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1. Are there kids involved? This will not be the ideal situation for you and them to have to endure.<br />
2. Your own physical and pshycological health are at risk. STD's, Depression, nervous breakdown.<br />
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Remeber if your a beliver there is no such thing as taboo because in american culture taboo would mean something like jinxed but the bible says "greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world". But I can understand how it would be hard to just throw away cultural upbringing but that could be something that the enemy is using to hold you in bondage. i am praying for you in this situation as I imagine it is very difficult to go threw. Thank you but I am an African…tag:abcpreachers.ning.com,2009-08-29:916966:Comment:9583972009-08-29T17:20:48.055ZOmoola Gracahttps://abcpreachers.ning.com/profile/OmoolaGraca
Thank you but I am an African woman and here we don't believe in divorce. It is taboo. It is detestable thing to do. he has promised to change but he is still seeing his girl friend.
Thank you but I am an African woman and here we don't believe in divorce. It is taboo. It is detestable thing to do. he has promised to change but he is still seeing his girl friend. Take a stand! Confront him le…tag:abcpreachers.ning.com,2009-08-29:916966:Comment:9577282009-08-29T00:47:43.758ZRev. Eric Culberson Jr.https://abcpreachers.ning.com/profile/RevCulberson
Take a stand! Confront him let him know you aint having it and keep your distance until he is ready to get it together! It aint gone be easy, its going to hurt, your going to be afraid but God is able!
Take a stand! Confront him let him know you aint having it and keep your distance until he is ready to get it together! It aint gone be easy, its going to hurt, your going to be afraid but God is able! Thank you all for your respon…tag:abcpreachers.ning.com,2009-08-28:916966:Comment:9567232009-08-28T16:52:24.803ZOmoola Gracahttps://abcpreachers.ning.com/profile/OmoolaGraca
Thank you all for your response and encouragement words.<br />
It is good for one to forgive as Christ has commanded. But in a situation whereby he still continues in adultery, what shall I do? I need your encouragement.
Thank you all for your response and encouragement words.<br />
It is good for one to forgive as Christ has commanded. But in a situation whereby he still continues in adultery, what shall I do? I need your encouragement. Uhmm. Sister you are right. I…tag:abcpreachers.ning.com,2009-08-07:916966:Comment:9100262009-08-07T22:02:06.649ZFadayomi Yinkahttps://abcpreachers.ning.com/profile/FadayomiYiinka
Uhmm. Sister you are right. It easier said than done.<br />
What you are saying can be summarized under two words: Sympathy and Empathy.<br />
Sympathy means, “I understand how you feel”.<br />
Empathy means, “I feel how you feel”.<br />
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Though, most people don’t believe in this word – “forgive and forget”. That’s why a lot of people are having problem with their marriages today. They said I have tried everything but it is not working out. When you forgive your spouse, you must forget what he/she has done against…
Uhmm. Sister you are right. It easier said than done.<br />
What you are saying can be summarized under two words: Sympathy and Empathy.<br />
Sympathy means, “I understand how you feel”.<br />
Empathy means, “I feel how you feel”.<br />
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Though, most people don’t believe in this word – “forgive and forget”. That’s why a lot of people are having problem with their marriages today. They said I have tried everything but it is not working out. When you forgive your spouse, you must forget what he/she has done against you. Every child of God has a life of God in him/her. We have Zoe (active life of God) in us and we have God’s attributes in us as well. God forgives and forgets our sins. He doesn’t see our sins. He forgets our sins i.e. He doesn’t even remember our sins anymore.<br />
We are expected to do the same as believers. We should forgive our spouses of any wrongdoing and forget (remember no more). Forgive and Forget is still the key to healing in marriage.<br />
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Few verses below:<br />
“Remember not the sins of my youth…” Psalm 25:7.<br />
“…Will not remember thy sins” Isaiah 43:25. When you don’t remember, that means, you forget completely.<br />
“For thou hast cast all my sins behind thy back” Isaiah 38:17b.<br />
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God casts our sins behind His back because He doesn’t look back and He has never looked back. Everything starts and ends with God. He is the beginning and the end (Rev.1:8).<br />
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When your spouse sins against you and you forgive him and you don’t forget. A month or months later, devil reminds you of what your spouse has done. devil tells you, why must he/she do this to you or treat you this way? You said it is unfair. You tend to react negatively to that and it affects your marriage. When devil tries to remind you of what your spouse has done. You tell him point blank that your spouse has not done anything wrong to you. He/she didn’t do it. This is where renew your mind comes in<br />
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“Love covers multitude of sins” 1 Peter 4:8.<br />
Every other thing will fail except love. Love never fails…1 Cor. 13:8.<br />
“And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love”.<br />
1 Corinthians 13: 13.<br />
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One of the greatest virtues of love is, “Love keeps no record of wrongs…” I Cor.13: 4-7.<br />
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Many Christians have practiced this, “forgive and forget” in their marriages and they have seen God at work. Today, they are all enjoying marital bliss. So, forgive and forget! God help you.<br />
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Stand for your marriage. Fight for everything the enemy has stolen in your life and marriage. Forgive and forget your spouse no matter what he/she has done. God is a God of restoration! He will restore all the years that cankerworm, palmerworm, grasshopper has eaten in Jesus name. Amen.<br />
Be blessed.<br />
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Evang. Yinka Fadayomi Amen Trevortag:abcpreachers.ning.com,2009-08-07:916966:Comment:9096922009-08-07T17:53:36.614ZEvangelist Altha Fugetthttps://abcpreachers.ning.com/profile/EvangelistAlthaFugett
Amen Trevor
Amen Trevor Very True Rev....
Omoola Gra…tag:abcpreachers.ning.com,2009-08-07:916966:Comment:9093312009-08-07T14:47:11.556ZArchbishop Trevor 'Elihu' Greenehttps://abcpreachers.ning.com/profile/ArchbishopTrevorElihu
Very True Rev....<br />
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Omoola Graca, I'd like to say dont look for sympathy either. look for GOD's true solution. Sympathy is like a pain relief and a pacifier for a crying baby. If you have an illness, why look for Tylenol when you have a cure re4ady for you? If the baby is crying for food, why pop a pacifier in their mouth? Don't just long for pain relief, seek for the cure, and the cure deals with forgiveness and healing. They have to work together, otherwise they won't work at all.
Very True Rev....<br />
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Omoola Graca, I'd like to say dont look for sympathy either. look for GOD's true solution. Sympathy is like a pain relief and a pacifier for a crying baby. If you have an illness, why look for Tylenol when you have a cure re4ady for you? If the baby is crying for food, why pop a pacifier in their mouth? Don't just long for pain relief, seek for the cure, and the cure deals with forgiveness and healing. They have to work together, otherwise they won't work at all.