THE UNDEFILED MARRIAGE BED

[prophetess m. brignac]

SEX HAS BEEN A "HOT TOPIC" (NO PUN INTENDED) WITHIN THE BODY O CHRIST FOR SOME TIME NOW, BUT A FEW DECADES AGO, THIS WAS TABOO, AND ONE WAS SUBJECT TO REBUKE FOR EVEN MENTIONING IT, MARRIED OR NO. ONE OF THE CHIEF QUESTIONS REVOLVES AROUND THE" MARRIAGE BED". PRETTY MUCH EVERYONE IS FAMILIAR WITH THE SCRIPTURE "THE MARRIAGE BED IS "UNDEFILED" HEBREWS 13:4 MANY HAVE TAKEN THIS TEXT TO THE EXTREME AND USE IT TO JUSTIFY WHAT GOD CONSIDERS TO BE "LASCIVIOUSNESS" AND, OFTEN, PERVERSION. YES, THE "MARRIAGE BED" MAY BE UNDEFILED BUT "WE" ARE NOT. FRESH LINEN SHEETS ARE ALWAYS "UNDEFILED" UNTIL WE LAY DOWN ON THEM, AND IN A DAY OR TWO THEY NEED TO BE SUBMURGED IN LAUNDRY DETERGENT AND BLEACH TO RESTORE THEM TO CLEANNESS. THE DANGER OF HAVING NO WISE BOUNDARIES OR DICIPLINE IN INTIMACY IS THE POTENTIAL TO REAWAKEN DEMONIC STRONGHOLDS OF PERVERSION AND LEWDNESS FROM ONE'S PAST, OR TO OPEN THE DOOR FOR THEM TO INFILTRATE AND CONTAMINATE WHAT GOD DESIGNED O BE A PURE ACT OF SHARED AFFECTION AND CLOSENESS. ANYTHING DONE IN EXCESS OR TO THE EXTREME WILL HAVE REPERCUSSIONS BY AND BY. I'VE COUNSELED MANY DISTRAUGHT WOMEN OF GOD WHO WERE IN A DILEMMA BECAUSE THEIR MATES WANTED THEM TO ENGAGE IN ACTIVITIES THEY HATED AND WEREN'T COMFORTABLE WITH, AND THEY WERE AFRAID THAT IF THEY DIDN'T COMPLY HE WOULD "GET IT SOME PLACE ELSE". I'M SPEAKING OF SAVED MEN OF GOD HERE, WHO PRESSURE THEIR WIVES INTO PERVERSION. IF YOUR MATE PUTS YOU IN THIS POSITION, THEN THERE ARE GREATER TROUBLES AS WELL, AND A POSSIBILITY THAT HE'S GOING TO DO JUST THAT AT SOME POINT ANYWAY.THE APOSTLE PAUL SAID IT BEST " ALL THINGS ARE EXPEDIENT FOR ME,BUT NOT ALL THINGS ARE "LAWFUL" ( FOR MY GOOD OR PRUDENT). WHEN COUPLES BLUR THE LINES AND CROSS CERTAIN BOUNDARIES, SPIRITS OF INORDINATE AFFECTION,SEXUAL IMPURITY, AND BASE DESIRES CROSS OVER TO US AND GRADUALLY UNFOLD INTO THINGS WE'RE NOT READY FOR, AND OFTEN LEAD TO MARITAL TROUBLE. I SAW IN A MOVIE ONCE, THIS HUSBAND WHO HAD BEEN HARASSING HIS WIFE FOR YEARS TO ALLOW HIM TO BRING HOME ANOTHER WOMAN FOR HIS PLESASURE, UNTIL SHE FINALLY GAVE IN AND FOLLOWED THROUGH WITH THIS PERVERTED "FANTASY" TO MAKE HIM HAPPY. AS IT TURNS OUT, SHE BBEGAN TO DESIRE THE OTHER PERSON MORE THAN SHE DID HER HUSBAND, AND IT CAME EXTREMELY CLOSE TO DESTROYING THEIR MARRIAGE. THIS IS NOT TO SAY THAT THIS PARTICULAR ACT IS A PROBLEM AMONGST THE SAINTS, BECAUSE ONLY GOD AND "THEY" KNOW. THE POINT IS THE DEVIL WAS VERY WILLING TO ACCOMODATE THEM , BECAUSE HE HAD BREACHED THEIR MARITAL COVENANT AND BECOME A THIRD PARTY. WHEN ONE CONSIDERS THAT THE LORD IS OMNISCIENT AND OMNIPRESENT, (PRESENT EVERYWHERE, EVEN IN YOUR BEDROOM OR WHEREVER YOU HAPPEN TO BE "ENGAGING" IN AND HIS EYES ARE UPON ALL THAT WE DO. OUR HOLY GHOST SHOULD QUICKEN US TO AVOID THOSE ACTS THAT, IF WE COULD VISIBLY SEE GOD PRESENT AND OBSERVING, WE WOULD BE ASHAMED AND EMBARASSED ABOUT. SOMEONE ASKED ME IF IT WAS ALRIGHT FOR HER TO PUT UP A "STRIPPER POLE" FOR HER HUSBAND, AND I RESPONDED THAT IT WOULDN'T BE WISE BECAUSE LOOK AT WHAT YOU'RE EMULATING FROM THE SLEAZIEST SEGMENTS OF THE WORLD AND BRINGING IT INTO WHAT SHOULD BE THE LORD'S ,AND YOUR, SANCTUARY WHERE HIS PRESENCE SHOULD BE, PERPETUALLY. NOT ONLY THAT,BUT CONSIDER THE POLE THE BABYLONIANS RAISED UP IN THE O.T. AND HOW THAT SERPENT WRAPPED ITSELF AROUND IT AND SLITHERED UP AND DOWN IT. WHEN WE BEGIN TO COMPROMISE TO "SATISFY" ONE ANOTHER , OTHER PRESENCES AND FORCES ENTER INTO THE DOMAIN OF INTIMACY, AND BECAUSE WE HAVE INVITED THEM, THEY ALTER WHAT WAS ONCE ONE OF LIFES' GREATEST JOYS. AS PEOPLE PERFORM " ROLE PLAYING" AND "FANTASIZING", WHAT THEY DON'T KNOW IS THAT THEY ARE SUMMONING UP "OTHERS" TO PARTCIPATE IN THEIR INTIMACY, AND SOON THE "FACES"OR IMAGES OF OTHERS BEGIN TO REPLACE THAT OF THE ONE YOU'RE BEING INTIMATE WITH, AND IF YOU'R NOT CAREUL, YOUR MATES DESIRES WLL ATTACH THEMSELVES ELSEWHERE. THE LORD HAS EQUIPPED US WITH SUCH CREATIVITY,THAT WE CAN STILL MANAGE TO EFFECTIVELY "SATISFY" OUR MATES THROUGH ACCEPTABLE ACTS. I'VE WORKED IN THE EMERGENCY ROOM AND SAW WOMEN COME IN FOR HELP BECAUSE SOMETHING "GOT STUCK" WHERE IT SHOULDN'T HAVE BEEN.CERTAINLY, IF WE CAN COME UP WITH MEGA VISIONS AND STRATEGIES TO IMPACT ENTIRE COMMUNITIES, WE CAN DISCOVER OR STRATEGIZE INTIMACY TO THE GLORY OF GOD! IF WE NEED TO "CLEAN OUT THE REFIGERATOR OR BRING "DINNER" SUCH AS ASSORTED " VEGETABLES", AND "JACK HAMMERS", "WEED EATERS", AND ELECTRICAL APPLIANCES TO BED TO ACHIEVE INTIMACY, WE HAVE FAR GREATER ISSUES THAN WANTING THAT COMING TOGETHER IN LOVE! IF WE HAVE TO BECOME SOMEONE ELSE ( A "NURSE", LITTLE "SCHOOL GIRL", OR "RED RIEDING HOOD" ) TO ACCOMODATE OUR MATES, WHAT IS HE REALLY SAYING? I'M BORED WITH YOU AS THE WOMAN I MARRIED? I REALLY WOULD LIKE TO BE WITH SOME OF THESE "WOMEN" I HAVE YOU PRETENDING TO BE? ONE OF THE MOST POPULAR MARITAL "AIDES IS A BOOK CALLED"KAMA SUTRA", AND IT IS FILLED WITH SEXUAL ACTS AND ADVICE THAT MOST OF US HAVE NEVR HEARD OF. DO YOU REALLY REALIZE WHOM YOU'RE RECEIVING INSTRUCTIONS FROM TO BRING TO YOUR "UNDEFILED" MARRIAGE BED? ARE YOU AWARE OF IT'S ORIGIN? I'M AWARE THAT MOST PEOPLE WHO GO BACK AND FORTH DEBATING THIS ISSUE, HAVE ALREADY MADE THEIR DECISION TO DO WHATEVER THEY DESIRE, AND THAT'S THEIR RIGHT AND PRIVILEGE, BUT NONE THE LESS, DEMONS AWAIT OPPORTUNITIES TO COME IN AND "PLAY " WITH YOU SO THAT YOU CAN "REALLY LET THE GAMES BEGIN!!' IF ONE'S NOT MINDFUL, YOU WILL FIND YOUSELF VISITED BY THE "INCUBUS, AND ,OR THE SUCCUBUS DEMONS THAT ARE SENT TO ACTUALLY ENGAGE IN SEX WITH MEN AND WOMEN, AND THESE ARE DOCUMENTED FACTS. "LEWDNESS, AND LUST DON'T BECOME "SANCTIFIED" BECAUSE IT HAS BEEN BROUGHT INTO MATRIMONY. THEY ARE STILL "LEWDNESS", PERVERSION AND LUST, ONLY NOW, WITIN THE CONFINES OF MARRIAGE.
: Share