1. Am I building up my house or tearing it
down?
2. Am I investing in my marriage? Am I
nurturing the heart of my marriage?
3. Do I frequently express admiration and
gratitude to my husband?
4. Am I reserving the best of my physical and
emotional energy for my family?
5. Am I creating a climate (through words,
actions, and attitudes) that makes my husband want to be at home?
6. Am I content to be “at home”? Am I finding
my “fulfillment” through reverencing and serving my husband and family?
7. Do I reserve intimate communication, looks,
words, and touch for my husband? Am I giving of my emotions, attention,
affection to a man other than my husband?
8. Am I meeting my husband’s sexual needs?
9. Am I trustworthy? Is there any behavior or
relationship I am involved in that I am keeping from my husband? Have I
been totally honest with my husband?
10. Does my husband have the freedom to be
totally honest with me?
11. Am I fueling sensual thoughts and desires
through books, magazines, TV programs, music, or movies that are not
morally pure?
12. Have I become a “refuge” for a man who may
be struggling in his marriage?
13. Am I looking to a man other than my husband
(pastor, counselor, colleague) to be a primary source of counsel or to
fill an emotional vacuum in my life?
14. Do I have a more intimate relationship—physically,
emotionally, or spiritually—with any man than I do with my husband?
15. Does my demeanor tend to be “loud and
defiant,” or do I communicate a meek, quiet, and submissive spirit?
16. Am I a “wall” or a “door” (Song of Songs
8:12)? Am I a “loose” woman? Do I communicate to the men around me that I
am “available”? Does my demeanor invite them to “partake” of intimate
parts of my body, soul, or spirit? Do I engage in flirtatious speech,
looks, or behavior?
17. Is there anything about my speech, actions,
dress, or attitudes that could defraud the men around me?
18. Am I discreet and restrained in the way I
talk with men at work? Is my conversation ever loose, crude, or
unbecoming for a woman of God? Am I expressing admiration for a man that
should more appropriately come from his wife?
19. Does my dress help men to keep their
thoughts pure and Christ-centered? Is my dress feminine and modest?
20. Have I erected (and am I maintaining)
adequate “hedges” in my relationships with men? What are those hedges?
21. Am I currently in a situation that is (or
could become) compromising? Am I in a situation that could appear to
others to be compromising?
22. Would my husband, as well as other men and
women who know me, say that I am a woman of moral virtue and purity?
23. Have I purposed in my heart to be morally
pure? Am I making myself accountable to my husband and to another godly
woman for my walk with God and others?
“Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price
is far above rubies” (Prov. 31:10).
apostle Andy Morris
email:apostleandymorris@gmail.com
website:apostleandymorris.webs.com
cell:+233266361759
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