MEN SEXUAL GRATIFICATIONS Vol 1.

Sexual Gratification seem to be a common plague among many brothers, especially in church. I have come to realized that, I wasn’t only the one that have had a phase of youthful lust growing up. Many of us had experienced all types sexual gratifications. Many are still struggling with this and it’s causing many to be distracted from their ministerial work and relationship with God.

Before getting further into this discussion, let me lay it down, that the information that I will be sharing is not to provoke anyone, but for us men to better live in righteousness. The word says “Let no filthy talk be heard from your mouths, but only what is good for building up people and meeting the need of the moment. This way you will administer grace to those who hear you.” And I subject myself duly to authority of this word.

This topic is not something you will hear your Pastor preach about on Sunday morning. Therefore, I will put it together the best godly way I can, and in a way it will administer grace to those who read it. I pray that as many people that read this will also be able to minister it to other men as well.
Sexual sin in church is a subject that many of us has come to kick under the rug, because the devil had made it to be something we dare not talk about. But I say, I will not let my people of God live under the pretense of everything is alright and suffers subjection to secret sexual sins! Whatever its going to take, it is time to take authority and set ourselves free as men. Many of us Christian brothers deal with bondage of one sexual sin or the other, causing us our relationship with God. The most extensive one of them that I will like to deal with first is masturbation.

Some brethren do actually believe that masturbation is not a sin. Whether its entirely sinful or not, is something I will like to talk about later on. But for now, know that if you constantly watch pornography videos to stimulate yourself in other to masturbate, and if are you married or single and you spend time to masturbate more than you have time to personally fellowship with God, then you know you have a struggle. It is not my duty to judge anyone action but I know if you have Holy Spirit within you, you will be convinced and be aware of what you are doing wrong.

So what causes men to get addicted to masturbation? If you are a man reading this and you are dealing with extreme addiction to masturbation. What do you think got you stuck on this act? Some men will say they can’t help themselves, and that is the truth, because you sure don’t know what to do to help yourself. You maybe either ignorant to what to do or totally chose to ignore seeking deliverance. Also the fact that the subject of sexual sin is shameful to you, you will likely not go around boldly asking other brothers on how to deal with masturbation. And the only person that can help you is the Holy Spirit of God, helping you to be able to renew your mind of the lies that has been planted in your heart about this addiction.

THREE THINGS THAT YOU NEED TO DO IN THE PROCESS OF SETTING YOURSELF FREE.
1. Be thought about reason why you are addicted and about your body.
2. Renew your mind with seasonal fasting and prayer. There are some issue that need you sacrificing yourself, so you may be able to separate yourself from the stronghold.
3. Taking authority and captive of every thought in your mind and visual imaginations in your inner sight that may want to trigger unwanted sexual gratification of yourself.

1. The Lesson: It is a fact that you can not pleasure yourself sexually as a man unless you first able to established an erection, lol. I know some people will like to shy a way from reading about men having hard on. But the true is that, this how God created us as men. It is part of our God given capacity as men to be able to have a moment when some warm blood freely and sometimes forcefully flow to our penis, making us to have what is called erection.
Now I have a question for you. Do you think God enable us to have erection, so we might be able to sin against him? I believe the answer to that question will be NO! It is what we do with an our erection that determine if we sin or not. There are many things that trigger erection in a man. So let break them down into categories.

Category: #1: Midnight and Morning rise
Have you ever wonder why men wakes up in the morning with full erection? This could actually be embarrassing if you live in a house with other people. One of the reasons why this happens is that, men that are sexually conscious, at most nights will dream about sex or at the very least, dreams about someone (Or something) that they want to have sex with. I know I used to have this happen to me. Sometimes this dream will look so real that it almost seems like reality. The dream seeming to be so real actually fools our body and specifically our penis to thinks he's "actually there" in our dreams. This for some people will just lead to ordinary erection. For some of us who actually see ourselves participate in sexual act in a dream, do actually have ejaculation in reality.

Apart from the dream, our body get heated up while we sleep. Depending on the intensity of *vasocongestion (accumulation of blood in the penis vessels) the blood flow to the penis causes the erection innocently happens while we are asleep. We wake up and we see a surprising up rise between our thighs. These occurrences are normal for us as men and it does not mean that because we find ourselves with hard on, we need to start pleasuring ourselves.
Pleasuring yourself as a result of finding yourself with an erection in the morning does not mean your penis want you to beat on him, but you do so as a result of how you have programmed your mind to such occurrence. It is interesting that penis suppose to be the glorious piece of our body that need to be treated with uttermost respect. Through it comes the seed of life that comes to carry on our existence and it is a treasure to whomever our spouse is or later will be in life. Yet we beat on it as if it did us wrong. We turn it to a toy that we derived our happiness from and without it, we won’t get needed pleasure to make us happy and calm our nerves.

To be continued...

0 members like this