Romance communication needs

 

  You sit your spouse down and communicate to him that you need more romance before you are able to get into the “mood.” His response to this request is grab you in inappropriate places in public places or make naughty remarks about your private parts. In other words, he needs a little communication re-enforcement.   It is time to sit him down again and communicate to him exactly what you mean by “romance.” One of the things we often take for granted is that a spouse understands the meaning behind our words. There will be times when you say one thing and they hear something different altogether.

That’s right! One deep conversation does not a marriage make. Who would have thought that with all else that comes along with marriage you would have to add talking often and talk deeply to your spouse?   Talk about your fears, the weather, your children, your work, your dreams, your needs, what makes you angry. Communication, as sex is needed to keep couples intimately and emotionally connected. So, talk and while you are talking, don’t forget to listen also.

  But Jesus said, "Not everyone is mature enough to live a married life. It requires a certain aptitude and grace. Marriage isn't for everyone. Some, from birth seemingly, never give marriage a thought. Others never get asked—or accepted. And some decide not to get married for kingdom reasons. But if you're capable of growing into the largeness of marriage, do it."  Matthew 19:10-12

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