ARE YOU OPERATING IN GOD'S WILL FOR YOUR LIFE AS A COUPLE?

[Robert T Sells]

Hey guys!

I just want to put this out here because I love to hear the testimonies of the way God is working in our lives.

My wife and I have been operating in our ministry of poetry now for 3 years and it has truly been a blessing. The Lord has been opening up doors for us to go minister in different areas and He is allowing us to go into secular areas now to minister to those who need to hear God's word. The poetry allows them to relax so they can hear the Word of God and be blessed by it. We have been able to publish two books so far and are about to release our first spoken word CD called "The Heart of a Man". I never would've imagined my life at this point but it is through our agreement that causes God to operate in our lives.

Okay let's hear your stories!

God bless you all...

[Charles Jefferson]

I can say it is a blessing to go forward in the ministry together and do the will of God. I have been in the ministry about 12 years now, and my wife 10 years. But, it seems as through we are struggling in getting to the will of God. I see each of us doing things to edify the kingdom of God, but not as a couple. We operate in different directions. So thats my story, which I am not to proud of. I just keep praying for the breakthrough.

[Robert T Sells]

I appreciate your honesty Man of God. I believe we all struggle at times with this. My wife and I always have to pray together as well as individually to make sure we are hearing from God. It is so critical to be able to hear God when He gives us instructions. We will be praying for you and your wife. Please keep us lifted up in your prayers as well. God's will will go forth in spite of what we go through in our lives.

God bless you...

[GOD'S APOSTOLIC AMBASSADORS]

John 14:1 LET NOT YOUR HEART BE TROUBLED, NEITHER LET IT BE AFRAID""

Blessings to you both Pastor Charles; BE ENCOURAGED, BE NOT DISMAYED, LIFT UP THY HEAD, FOR THERE WILL BE GREATER AND BETTER DAYS".
Yes, as Minister Sells said, ALL COUPLES STRUGGLE IN MARRIAGE/MINISTRY. ALL COUPLES HAVE THEIR MOMENTS, ALL COUPLES GET UPSET WITH EACH OTHER!!
BUT WORRY NOT, THIS TOO SHALL P ASS*****.

God's expressed, perfect Will for Marriages is not only for family, pleasure, security, homes, cars, but it is 'MINISTRY" HE SAID FOR US TO GO, GO,GO INTO THE HIGHWAYS, INTO THE UTTERMOST PARTS OF SAMARIA,AND PREACH THE GOSPEL, BAPTIZING THEM IN THE NAME OF THE LORD. HE SAID CAST OUT DEVILS, HEAL THE SICK""JESUS SENT THE DISCIPLES OUT, TWO BY TWO'.

MARRAIGE IS MINISTRY**. God said in the beginning, it is not good that man is alone, I willl make him a help meet. So satan grabs that word, and distorts it, by causing disobedience, rebellion, and competion,to set in. It is his desire to tear down, to seperate, divide, whereby couples can no longer function and flow together (Amos 3:3) "How can two walk together except they be agreed".

it is a know fact, wehntwo are anointed, satan will send demon spirits, to influence one over the other, to attach itself, and cause dissension, & division. Sometimes, DIVISION & DISAGREEMENT COMES FROM PAST HURT, REJECTION & FROM BEING IN OTHER CHURCHES. so one puts up a guard, and decides to move without the other. One may even sayaand stand firm quote, many, "I will not be hurt, rejected, left behind or controllled any longer. (Ecc;4:9-12) There will be times when one mate is ministering away from the other,but that does not negate the fact, that God wants ONE MIND, ONE SPIRIT,SPEAKING THE SAME THINGS, SEEING THE SAME THINGS AND KNOWING THE SAME THINGS.
A married couple in ministry, is also for complimenting each other. They say opposite attracts,I REALLY DO BELIVE THAT. Yet, there must be compatibility*****

GOD THEN BRINGS THEM TOGETHER FROM TWO DIFFERNT WORLDS OR BACKGROUND, SOMETIMES, & THEN PUTS THEM TOGETHER ,TO MAGNIFY AND COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER, MAKING THEM ONE.(THE TWO BECOME ONE- FLESH) THERE IS ONE LORD , ONE SPIRIT, ONE FAITH , ONE BAPTISM. JESUS SAID,I AND THE FATHER ARE ONE"

My husband & I have had so many wonderful testimonies, of how God flowed out of us, and within us together even before we were engaged to be married. It was all just at first ministry. Yet it was God's Will. In God's heart He had a plan for us. You see, Pastor Charles, my husband was sent to my church as Bishop Prelate, from Utah, while I was already pastoring and in ministry for the last 19/half years.My early years of teaching and instructing started at 12 years old.

It was truly amazing**** We flowed together on just about everything, even what we would eat, the thngs that we like, or planning of church functions. We think on the same things, we agreed together, we sometimes spoke simultaneously together. The same words would proceed from our mouths together**** We plan on the same things and discuss the same things, even while apart or away from each other. Yet when meetings,and minuites would be in effect, our decisions would be on the same matter. That is how God used us then, and in so many ways. (I GIVE HIM ALL THE PRAISE AND GLORY!!

Even now that as we are operating & building ministries/our church, we still flow in the same way. if we disagree on some thing, I would go back in prayer and ask God, "If it is what God wants, if and when my husband debates or sees from another perspective, he also would pray, for us to flow & stay together. God would then speak & reveal clearly to him/us "Yes, this what I want, saith the Lord" As a woman, my upbringing was to let a man rule, in his authority and kingship, just as long as he follows Christ. A woman is to also give her husband, upliftment, to strenghten,give encouragement, praise,& to honor the call on his life, and to respect hm for what God has made him into,and for who he is for her. He may not always cross every T and dot every i, which can be discouraging or frustrating to a woman, but she is to keep on praying, and yet walk yet still virtoulsy. Proverbs 31)

The same for the man to protect, encourage, uplift cover her in prayer and in many ways, and to help push that woman, inot her destiny. AGAIN I SAY, MARRIAGE IS MINISTRY God needs TWO, to destroy the works of darkness. "one can put a thousand to flight, but two can put ten thousand" One backs up the other, the other protects, binds, and rebukes even while the other is ministering, or working in the vineyard.
There must always be a covering in prayer, for each other. If one is too overwhelmed/busy, then the other must cover and cause confusion and damage in the camp of !!!hell!!!!!

When a man and a woman get together and call upon God , He will fix it. Yet it is the man and woman in ministry as couples, that must purpose in their hearts and mind, that we will do all things together, for it is to the Glory of God, and not for our selves, for fame or fortune, or our glory. The weapons and tool the couple in ministry has against the enemy, is agreeing together, praying together more and more, and they must make a conscious decision to stay out of strife & contention, and never go to bed angry at each other. NO matter who is wrong, one must go to make amends. As soon as that happpens, (Sometimes one is more stubborn than the other, of course), but there must be a action, so demons can no longer have a foothold,or a stronghold, in the marriage. HE IS DEFEATD THEN!!! I

f there is continued strife, contention, and seperation in the spirit realm, problems occur, health issues, emotionally, financially,ministerially, and that can bind up the move of God,giving satan access to rule and reign in that marraige.

God is now requiring things of couples in ministry, PURPOSE TO STAY TOGETHER. All must make decisions together, pray together, TEAR DOWN DEVILISH WORKS TOGETHER, and build together. There is no yours or mine in marriage or ministry.**IT IS OURS***
The Lord has done some wonderful things for us all, and He will continue to do greater and better things, if we trust and obey, for there is no other way!!.

I Prophesy, Decree and Declare over all BPN Marriages,that "No weapon formed us all shall prosper,and that every tongue, every plots, every schemes, that comes against us in judgment it is condemned, in the NAME OF JESUS, for this is their hertitage of the servants of the Lord, and their righteous is of me , saith God" (Isa.54:17)
I come against principalities, & powers, rulers of darkness, spiritual wickedness in high places, every jealous demon, every witch, every warlock, every devil, every lieutenant, every officer,every general of satan, to be bound, & to cease in all their maneuvers.

I rebuke EVERY AND ALL ASSINGMENTS, AND I CALL IT NUL AND VOID. THEY SHALL NOT COME TO PASS!!!!!.

I LOOSE BLESSINGS, PEACE PROSPERITY, ONENESS, TOGETHERNESS, UNITY, A BINDING PASSIONATE LOVE FOR EACH OTHER, on BPN, IN THE NAME OF JESUS, NOW AND ALWAYS.

REJOICE**, SAINTS, REJOICE YOU HAVE THE VICTORY, SHOUT WITH THE VOICE OF TRIUMPH*****