Sometimes I don't always get to expound on the word or things going on around me in my own writings and have to share the awesome works of others..I was dealing with a issue relating to friendship. I found myself caught in the middle of a situation...Now do I react to what one was saying and tell why the other one was truly not being truthful in what they told the other one and therefore betray what was told to me in confidence even though now this same person is telling the person lies that would make me like I did something wrong by not telling ..and even reveal something that was said and done by the second party that hurt me when it was told to me yet I never said anything about it in all he years I have known it and I remained friends with that person after giving it and them over to the Lord.
I found myself at a point again of prayer and forgiveness because hat was what was needed concerning the whole situation which developed from one friend doing something to help the other out of a bad situation and now the enemy wants it to look like much more was going on ..Although quite angered by the actions of all concerned...I remained faithful just to pray and put my anger aside and decided again just to let God work it out and strangely the next morning God gave me this word..so I shall it with you:
The Power of Prayer
By Tanya James
Recently I found myself very disappointed in someone I considered a good friend. They did something to me that I felt (and still feel) was totally unacceptable and it was hard for me to swallow. I knew that I needed to forgive them and let it go but I just couldn't wrap my head around it at the time.
Not wanting to hold a grudge, I began to quote any and every scripture I could remember (and maybe a few I made up) on forgiveness. But it seemed the moment I stopped quoting scripture, I got mad all over again.
Throughout that week, I kept rehearsing what happened and when I shared it with my husband and my sister, I got even angrier - it was like every time I told the story, the fire was being fueled. So I decided that I needed to stop talking about it because that was not helping the situation.
I'm sure you have all been there before ...maybe it wasn't a friend, perhaps it was a sibling, a co-worker, a neighbor or even someone at church. Whoever it was, they crossed you in some form or fashion and raised your blood pressure. You found yourself on this never ending cycle of anger because you couldn't quite let it go.
In time, I realized that forgiveness is very hard in our own power... and at some point, I cleared my head and took it to God in prayer ...and yet again, God amazed me with his ability to bring an inner peace in the midst of any situation.
Prayer is by far the greatest weapon we have. Prayer causes you to change your perspective on things.
While in prayer, God reminded me of the many times I had turned my back on Him. The many times I had disappointed Him. Yet, not once has He held back his forgiveness towards me.
He also reminded me that no one except Him is flawless, so I must not put people on a pedestal or expect them to never let me down. Yes, we expect certain things like respect from our friends, however at some point, we have probably all disrespected someone we cared about. How is it that we expect people to always be willing to forgive us but when the tables are turned - watch out!
Through prayer, I realized it was alright for me to be hurt by the situation, but it wasn't alright for me to dwell there. God healed my wounds and gave me the courage to step back out and not allow this situation to dictate my mood, attitude or behavior towards the person who offended me.
There is something to be said about the power of prayer ...next time I won't wait so long to use it!
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