Painful Package
brothers and sisters,
many people when they hear about the love of
God all they think of is something good but i have come to understand that the love of God sometimes comes in a painful package. I experienced this when a young faced a very big blow from his fiance a month before the wedding. The Lord revealed to him that his fiance was not faithful to him by allowing him to see for himself what his fiance was doing without any tip from the public. Catching his fiance with another man was painful but it was good for him to do that before the wedding. The man stayed in denial for sometime but this was good because he saw the true colors of the lady he wanted to marry in today's world where aids has claimed a lot of people due to infidelity.
Am now praying for this young man to find a faithful lady who will not break his heart.
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Permalink Reply by Pastor Jonathan on
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Remember that God is slow to anger. Some people paint a picture that God will beat you up as soon as you mess up. Usually we are simply experiencing the consequences of our own actions that we have brought upon ourselves in this dispensation of grace and mercy. I don't whip my children every time they mess up. God can also chasten his children when they are walking upright before the Lord (Job, Paul, etc).
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Permalink Reply by Lubilo Kaponda on
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what should the young do, this has been a crucial question. should he forgive her and continue with the arrangement or not? The young man has been very much in love with the lady and all disappointment has left the man in dilemma.
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the man is 41 and the lady is 33
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Permalink Reply by Mrs. Denise Jones on
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I think when people get married they geniunely love one another, but nobody seems to have the art of bringing their bodies under subjection. People seem to have NO self control---don't matter what it is, food, alcohol, sex, lying, stealing etc. No one knows how to tell themself NO. People don't know how to die to self and this is why there is such a high rate in all areas of destructive behaviors - addictions etc. This is what the bible tries to teach us, that we can do ALL thing in Christ who strenghtens us. That WE/OURSELF/ME/I can't do nothing, but if only we will DENY ourselves, take up our cross DAILY...it is a daily thing to say NO to self, but there is a blessing in denying oneself, but you will never know until you OBEY.
In Love Sister Denise
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LOL Rev. Watson...my sentiments exactly.
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LOL..Amen...that's what the word also instructed the disciples to do when people wouldn't receive them as they were given the great commission shake the dust off and keep it moving....LOL
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Should he communicate to her or should he wait for her to communicate to him
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Ditto again Rev. Watson.
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Forgive, step back and wait. Psalms 27:14, "Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the LORD." Just because you want to do the right thing does not mean that the other person wants to do the right thing. Time will tell.
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Praise God. He is able. Amen.
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Even some failed relationships are set up by God for your good and his purpose. Judges 14:4, "But his father and his mother knew not that it [was] of the LORD, that he sought an occasion against the Philistines: for at that time the Philistines had dominion over Israel." This is the sovereign will of God which most people are not cognitive of, able to perceive nor understand.
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Elder Denny, I am glad you found your wife and that is a good thing. I have experienced hurt in the same way, but through marriage and he was suppose to be christian. I just didn't understand how your anger got directed to God instead of the person. You said she made a mistake and that is what my ex said, he made a mistake...smiling. A mistake is n error or fault resulting from defective judgment, deficient knowledge, or carelessness, and intent is something that is intended; an aim or purpose - like planned., and I don't see the two coinciding. It is not a mistake when you undress yourself and lay down with someone. Now the word mistake can be used as an excuse. And everybody that say they are His are not His, because John 8:44 say Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it. So everyone that say they are christian is not. This is why we have so many of our leaders doing this very same act and calling it a mistake, I say it is intentional because it is planned. What you think?
In Love Sister Denise
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