"For I know the thoughts that I have towards you, thoughts of good & NOT EVIL to bring you to an expected end"....
Clearly God sees us differently than WE or others see us. He has plans in store for us that NO ONE can stop other than we ourselves. No longer blame others for your thoughts & outcome of you/your life/your situation. Your choices are YOURS; OWN THEM! From this day ongoing, make a conscious decision to Consult God FIRST & obey what he says..follow his blueprint rather than draw up your own OR alter what's already perfect in the eyes of God. For there is a way that seems right unto man but the end results is death.