Family, I don't know where to start with this one because there are so many dynamics in this marriage. This couple want to know if they should stay at the church they are attending, below is the reason for the question.
1. The Gentleman is a Deacon in the Church, and 1 yr ago had a child with a new member of the church (female #1). All who are involved are still members of this congregations...thus the problem in the wife's opinion. I will get to that also.
2. Shortly after having the child with the new member, the "Deacon" married another young lady in a short period of time after she became a member (this is female #2)
3. Wife does not want to remain at the church because of the natural connection with female #1 and the child shared by now her husband, and father of the child. She feels they are too close.
4. The "Deacon" in his opinion is devoted to this ministry because when he came out of prison 9 years ago, this ministry introduced him to Christ.
Should they stay or go and why.
Your Thoughts family?
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