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April 23, 2009
I Feel Your Pain
WRITTEN BY: Mary Southerland

Today's Truth

2 Corinthians 1:3-4

"Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is the Father who is full of mercy and all comfort. He comforts us every time we have trouble, so when others have trouble, we can comfort them with the same comfort God gives us."

Friend to Friend

The story of the Good Samaritan is one of the most familiar passages in all of scripture. It is a parable, an earthly story with a heavenly lesson. Jesus tells this parable in response to a question asked him by a Jewish lawyer. "What must I do to inherit eternal life?" the successful young truth seeker asked. Jesus saw his heart and told him the two things he must do, the two things the lawyer would find it hardest to do. He must love God completely and he must love his neighbor as himself.
The lawyer didn't like that answer because he lived by the law. He wanted the laws or doing good works to be his ticket to heaven. This "loving your neighbor" business sounded too messy and certainly too costly. It was simply too much personal responsibility. But Jesus told the lawyer that keeping the law -- God's law and man's law - was not enough. He had to love God and he had to love his neighbor.

Thinking he could find a loophole, the lawyer asked, "Who is my neighbor?" Jesus' answer to that question is the parable of the Good Samaritan. It is a story of compassion and drives home the truth that compassion is not just for the easy to love people, but for the not so easy to love sandpaper people as well, an impossible task outside the supernatural power of God working in and through us. The word "compassion" is a key word in 2 Corinthians, is used 29 times and can be defined as "called to one's side to help."

How can we become people of compassion?

It was Easter Sunday, and I was sitting in the sanctuary, waiting for the worship service to begin. Anticipating a large crowd, I arrived early to drop our son, Jered, off in the nursery, one of his favorite places to go because every nursery worker spoiled him rotten. Sometimes he would even cry when my husband, Dan, or I picked him up after church, wanting to stay and play. As the choir filed in, a friend slipped into the pew beside me and said, "I think you need to go to the nursery. Something is wrong with Jered." Jumping up, I catapulted over legs, toes and bodies as I raced to the nursery and my son.

I was not prepared for what I saw. Over in the corner, lying on his favorite red mat was Jered, staring at the ceiling, silent and rigid. As I bent over my precious son and looked into those beautiful blue eyes, huge tears slid down his chubby cheeks as he flew into my arms, sobbing. You have to understand, as a baby, the only time Jered cried was when he was hungry, wet or sick. He always seemed to be smiling, happy and contented. Something was obviously very wrong. I kissed his forehead. No fever. I checked his diaper. Dry and clean. I had no idea what the problem was.

Just then, Mrs. Giles, Jered's favorite nursery worker, drew me aside and said, "Let me tell you what just happened. We had a new little girl in the nursery today. It was her first time in a church nursery -- ever. When her parents left, she immediately began screaming and wouldn't stop. Jered came running and wrapped his arms around her but she pushed him away. He then brought her his bottle, but she hurled it across the room and continued screaming. Desperate to help the little girl, Jered found his diaper bag and fished out Turtle." Turtle was a small, stuffed green and blue turtle we had given him months earlier when he was in the hospital, seriously ill with croup. From the moment he saw Turtle, everywhere Jered went, Turtle went. Jered slept with Turtle clutched tightly in one hand. Jered ate with Turtle sitting in his lap and carefully tucked Turtle in his diaper bag whenever we left the house. Turtle quickly became Jered's most precious possession and an invaluable source of comfort to him. Mrs. Giles continued, "I couldn't believe that Jered was willing to give Turtle to a stranger, but he tried." The crying child had taken one look at Turtle and thrown it in Jered's face. Stunned, he picked up Turtle and laid down on the mat, refusing to move, the stuffed animal clutched tightly in his arms. Then I knew. I knew that Jered could not stand to see the little girl in pain and was determined to help. When he couldn't, he retreated until someone else came to help.

That's compassion.

Compassion is empathy, not just sympathy. We sometimes equate showing compassion with "fixing" people. Genuine compassion is first able to feel their pain. I believe the more pain we experience, the more compassionate we will be. We must learn to use our pain in the right way, not lashing out but looking within to identify with and share the pain of others. There is a choice in every pain, an opportunity in every trial. We can understand and comfort others who walk through the same trials we face. Pain makes us focus inward or outward. It makes us martyrs or merciful.

The choice is ours.

The Samaritan chose to use his pain and help the injured man. He could understand the man's pain because of the pain in his own life. Jews hated all Samaritans. The man lying on the road was a Jew. There was no logical reason for this Samaritan to rearrange his plans and spend his money to help this "enemy" in need. But compassion doesn't look for reasons or ask for limitations. It searches for opportunity. The Samaritan had a choice, just as we have a choice every time we are confronted with a need. We can either ignore the need or we can meet the need by giving away part of the comfort God has given us.

If we can't prevent pain, we can at least lessen the load with compassion. Allen Redpath wrote, "You can never lighten the load unless you have first felt the pressure in your own soul." To develop compassion, we must be willing to feel the pain of others, responding as if it were our own.

Let's Pray ....

Father, my heart can be so hard and indifferent. Please help me remember how Your compassion saved me and then empower me to share that same compassion with others who are hurting. Please help me see them -- the wounded ones who cross my path every day.
In Jesus' name,

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Comment by Eric Hancock on April 25, 2009 at 2:49pm
If we as believers would feel each others pain and perform sermons then we will be closer to heaven as we think,,,why is it that when it comes to helping each other,,more and more christians help WITH A PRICE TAG OR TICK FOR TACK..WWJD what would Yah do??he would help without the price tag...the church is out of order,,everything thing is the money,,Is Yah pleased with our walk??
Comment by T.L. Hawkins on April 24, 2009 at 8:35am
Bro PoemDei you said...

"Compassion is a fundamental characteristic for effectiveness in our ministry in Christ to one another in the Church and to this world. Many of us like the idea of sharing in the royalty and rulership of Christ to do powerful things. But if the power of Christ is a characteristic of the nature of Christ, what about sharing in the compassionate nature of Christ in the priestly ministry of Christ?".....

and that was a WHOLE lot in itself!!!! Compassion IS a NECESSARY fundamental charachteristic for effectiveness in our ministries.

Thanks for the feed back.

Comment by Rev. Florence Palmer on April 23, 2009 at 10:26pm
Beautiful, thanks so much for sharing. Amen. God bless
Comment by PoemiaDei on April 23, 2009 at 6:58pm
Thanks for sharing this inspiring exhortation. It is another illustration of Jesus' statement that unless we humble ourselves and become like little children we cannot be His disciples.

Compassion is a fundamental characteristic for effectiveness in our ministry in Christ to one another in the Church and to this world. Many of us like the idea of sharing in the royalty and rulership of Christ to do powerful things. But if the power of Christ is a characteristic of the nature of Christ, what about sharing in the compassionate nature of Christ in the priestly ministry of Christ?

Jesus lives today as our High Priest. Hebrews 4:15: For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin.

What is the nature and ministry of a priest? Hebrews 5:1-2:
1: For every high priest taken from among men is appointed for men in things pertaining to God, that he may offer both gifts and sacrifices for sins.
2: He can have compassion on those who are ignorant and going astray, since he himself is also subject to weakness.

If Christianity is really Christ living in us, we who are Christians must share in the compassionate nature of Christ to manifest His life to others. In fact, we cannot share in the royalty of Christ without sharing in His priesthood. In Christ we become a royal priesthood!

This is how the Bible describes God's people: 1 Peter 2:9-10:
9: But you are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, His own special people, that you may proclaim the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light;
10: who once were not a people but are now the people of God, who had not obtained mercy but now have obtained mercy.

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